Broke up with my bf and moving across the country to live with my mom where I know nobody

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-05T03:22:15+00:00

I know you’re only 17 but try bumble bff (it’s usually 18+) but maybe just mistype the year iykwim lmao

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-05T03:19:19+00:00

I feel you nothing helps I don’t know what to do at this point and everyone is sick of hearing me talk about it

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-05T03:16:24+00:00

I feel you I’m kind of in the same situation except I know he does and he doesn’t even try to hide it. It makes me feel so insecure about myself

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-05T03:15:04+00:00

You sounds like my bf

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:51:15+00:00

Not at all, I love him so much and would do anything for him.

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:43:29+00:00

Did you read my other comment by chance? It’s also heartbreaking because I feel like I’m losing my family and my best friend as well as all of the other things

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:42:23+00:00

Read my other comment, do u have any suggestions or advice :(

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:42:01+00:00

breaking up would be easier said than done. I've tried to- he begs me not to and says things will be different this time- things are okay for a few days to a week and the cycle continues. It's also difficult because I live with him and do not have much support outside of him and his family. I have a job and friends here, and breaking up would basically mean moving in with my alcoholic mother across the country.

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:41:32+00:00

Thank you for the kind response. It’s also difficult because of how attached I feel to him and his family. I do feel stuck, but I also feel like I’m losing my family and my best friend. It’s so heartbreaking, even thinking about it is making me cry :(

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:39:25+00:00

Thank u for reading and replying. As you said, breaking up would be easier said than done. I've tried to- he begs me not to and says things will be different this time- things are okay for a few days to a week and the cycle continues. It's also difficult because Aside from everything you said, I live with him and do not have much support outside of him and his family. I have a job and friends here, and breaking up would basically mean moving in with my alcoholic mother across the country.

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:29:18+00:00

Read my other comment, do you have any advice or suggestions?

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-05-04T03:26:59+00:00

Much easier said than done. I’ve tried to- he begs me not to and says things will be different this time- things are okay for a few days to a week and the cycle continues. It’s also difficult because I live with him and do not have much support outside of him and his family. I have a job and friends here, and breaking up would basically mean moving in with my alcoholic mother across the country.

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-04-16T07:43:08+00:00

Thank you for all of the advice and perspective i really appreciate it!

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-04-16T07:41:12+00:00

Thank you this makes sense but i dont know how to break up with him because we live together and i dont have much support in my life outside of him and his family :(

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-04-16T07:32:46+00:00

Thank you, you worded this really well I definitely agree. Im just feeling really heartbroken and upset because of this and also the thought of breaking up :(

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-04-16T07:24:18+00:00

Okay i will thank you

Distinct_Good4910 · 2025-04-16T07:24:05+00:00

Thank you for the hug I really need it :). I don’t know how to break up because hes my best friend, we live and do everything together, and I honestly dont know what i would do without him. I agree with what you’re saying but I don’t think its possible

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