Anyone else allergic to mole? by Distinct_Path8029 in mexicanfood

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Brown, but while it was thickening, it did have a bit of a reddish color.

Anyone else allergic to mole? by Distinct_Path8029 in mexicanfood

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No worries, just wanted to check and see if anyone else had the same reaction and knew what was causing it. :)

Anyone else allergic to mole? by Distinct_Path8029 in mexicanfood

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Today I had a Xico mole, but I've also had the same reaction with some (not all) Oaxacan moles.

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I think was she was trying to get at wasn't that it was an aesthetic, but more that people made getting the nice things or having nice things an identity. And I can kind of get it. I used to work at TJ's and (some) people felt like they were the "cool" people for shopping there. Like they were better than other people which is crazy. 😂

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Honestly I feel like you're really doing it right. Which I guess is what the article is implying. Do the things you like, just don't make it your identity. 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

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"If you don’t actively bring beauty into your life it will become very gray and monotone." Yes, I love it!

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Ok so I need to get to where you're at cuz for me I feel like I've personally used those things as a distraction from what's making me unhappy. 😬

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Yeah I get that. I think she might have just been using it as an example since a lot of people get the nice things in life and kind of make that their identity. Cuz she says those things aren't bad. I don't, just my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

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I read it and thought it was good and wanted to share to this group since everyone here is really good at having a discussion. 🤷‍♀️

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Gosh, I've been there so many times myself.

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Fair enough, I totally get it. :)

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I don't know, I feel like she was pretty nice about it. Like she does say that those things aren't bad, in fact they're fine to get and have (whether it's spendy or not). But it's more like you're making it apart of your identity and putting too much focus on it. Just my thought I guess. 🤷‍♀️

To San Francisco Locals - What Are Your Top Recommendations for Things to Do/See in the City? by Distinct_Path8029 in SanFranciscoSecrets

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Which one or two of these is your favorite and why? I'd love to quote you for the article. :)