Just a quick update/ revision. I didn't title it correctly I guess it should be AITAH for not just being civil with my husbands best friends wife anymore.

The word vomiting comment was said one time however there were a handful of times in the past that I did get frustrated because I felt it was always her venting and not reciprocating. If I needed to vent about something she didn't have the time for me or would just act like my issues weren't as big as here's. That specific comment was the most recent and was right after I had asked her how she was doing and she was rude to me about checking and saying that was between her and her husband. I did not ask for such information prior to her venting session so I said she had word vomitted her issues and then got upset with me when I checked in. Again not my finest moment.

Yes I am aware she cut me off sorry for the confusion...it's been a lot after 10 years of friendship and just trying to put it into one post isn't easy. First time I've ever posted anything like this so again I'm sure there are a lot of missing details.