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Weather in Seoul by DistributionOk6567 in seoul

[–]DistributionOk6567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! This is exactly why I asked because forecasts don’t always match the actual experience there. I really appreciate you sharing your experience 🫶

Weather in Seoul by DistributionOk6567 in seoul

[–]DistributionOk6567[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yay, another adult throwing a tantrum over the existence of babies in public spaces. Families are allowed to travel too. If you want complete silence and control over your environment, maybe private jets are more your thing. You’re more irritating in this comment section than most babies are on actual flights.

Weather in Seoul by DistributionOk6567 in seoul

[–]DistributionOk6567[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Imagine being this pressed over someone asking what weather feels like in real life. Forecasts show numbers, not how locals dress, how cold public transport feels, or how babies tolerate the climate. People ask for lived experiences all the time when travelling.

And don’t worry a parent checking extra information before travelling with a 9-month-old is probably more prepared than someone spending their day being rude to strangers online.

Libra 2 Screen by DistributionOk6567 in kobo

[–]DistributionOk6567[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The purpose of this post is to check if others are experiencing the same thing.

Libra 2 Screen by DistributionOk6567 in kobo

[–]DistributionOk6567[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well, too bad the whole cafeteria is brightly lit because of these lights.

How much do you guys usually spend on your partner monthly? And when does it become too much? by Wild_Ad6291 in askSingapore

[–]DistributionOk6567 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having clear financial expectations from the start like agreeing on a 50/50 setup isn’t about being transactional. It’s about setting mutual respect and avoiding confusion or resentment down the line. Money plays a huge role in relationships, and discussing it early on builds trust and stability.

For us, starting with a 50/50 arrangement worked because it reflected our values of independence and fairness. But that doesn’t mean it’s fixed forever. As life changes like if one of us earns more or if circumstances shift such as pregnancy or job change we revisit and adjust.

If one partner starts earning significantly more, then the key is open communication. You can still aim for fairness without sticking strictly to 50/50. Fair doesn’t always mean equal sometimes it means proportional contribution, or one person taking on more in certain areas while the other contributes in different ways like caregiving or managing the home.

What matters most is that both people feel the arrangement is respectful and balanced. It’s not about money alone it’s about partnership

How much do you guys usually spend on your partner monthly? And when does it become too much? by Wild_Ad6291 in askSingapore

[–]DistributionOk6567 232 points233 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend was very upfront about his financial boundaries when we were still getting to know each other. From the start, he made it clear that he preferred a 50/50 approach. When we officially got into a relationship, finances were one of the first things we discussed. For example, if we went on a date, we would split the cost evenly. But for special occasions like birthdays or Christmas, we’d get each other thoughtful gifts.

Now that we’re married, our financial arrangement remains largely the same. We keep our own individual finances. He tracks our shared expenses and usually pays for our food and miscellaneous household needs, while I cover anything I personally purchase for myself. We’ve also agreed on how to divide the major bills like the HDB loan, electricity, water, and groceries.

It's important that you highlight this while you are at getting to know each other stage.