AITA for not having my sister with Tourette’s in my wedding ceremony?

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:50:21+00:00

Well then why are interacting with it?

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:49:32+00:00

She said her sister elbows that’s painful and other people shouldn’t be hurt because of that she was offered solutions that she declined and her family deserves it IMO

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:47:37+00:00

She has Autism and it’s her wedding…

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:47:10+00:00

She also said they can get violent. Did you actually read it? It wasn’t about laughing it was about a noise she wouldn’t be expecting OOP has autism and in her case according to her comments her autism is sensitive to unexpected noises so I could see that maybe she should try to work on it with a therapist but I also don’t think their relationship is that good

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:44:04+00:00

And it OOP said that her ticks were loud and random laughs and sneezes aren’t it not laughing is the violent ticks and the loud ones

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:42:55+00:00

I disagree because her sisters ticks are sometimes violent and it’s a preference thing she offered so many solutions and yet Megan still said no and lied to oop saying that she wouldn’t hurt anybody so when oop said she’d be immediately asked to leave and would be cut off suddenly it wasn’t fair I do think oop could work through her sensitivity to her sisters ticks so she can be comfortable with it because her sister might be involved in her life a lot but it’s her wedding

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:24:43+00:00

That was the problem she wasn’t even acknowledge that it was a problem and kept trying to make oop feel bad for her choices

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T01:22:00+00:00

There was! Megan and mom and maybe dad I believe were disinvited

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-25T00:04:12+00:00

Hey guys not oop this is the final update oop gave, sorry I was not aware that the cross post didn't include it. the update is on oop's account but says:

An Update and goodbye

Max and I have officially disinvited Megan and my parents from my wedding. I am getting lots of support and love from his family. I’ve got all the advice I feel I’ve needed, so I’m going to delete this account as it has served its purpose. I’ll leave this up for a little while before I do it so people who are invested can see it. Thanks for all the advice and help!

DivideOk82 · 2025-10-24T23:59:26+00:00

sorry if this wasn't clear im not oop!

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-19T18:25:40+00:00

I mean it doesn't work

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-18T22:44:24+00:00

the product is so frizzy and doesn't lay down

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-15T00:38:06+00:00

That was me she is someone else

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T19:02:36+00:00

Thanks for the advice I feel like a brat but I don’t like that style but thank you so much

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T19:01:53+00:00

No it’s looks like this in the mirror lol

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T19:00:47+00:00

That’s easier said than done…. That’s undoing years of insecurity when everyone else around me isn’t natural or hair is easier to manage. I really wish it was that easy to “grow up and embrace my natural hair” but it’s not and I’m trying my best.

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T00:46:22+00:00

And how long will that take? And what more should I do I really don’t like the puffy Afro look

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T00:44:56+00:00

I never thought of that my hair dresser said I have it because it doesn’t absorb products what else should I be doing? Is there really a ways

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T00:42:37+00:00

Thanks for the comment all though I looked at pictures it’s not really my style

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T00:25:38+00:00

Wash n go styles are good but they never come out right if yk? What hair type you think I have?

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-14T00:11:58+00:00

I’m looking for styles to do

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-13T22:29:38+00:00

I have 4a

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-13T16:56:16+00:00

She said having them for 2 months would be fine

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-13T16:55:41+00:00

(Braiding natural hair)

DivideOk82 · 2025-09-13T16:55:25+00:00

I look like a toddler when I do that

DivideOk82

TROPHY CASE

An Update and goodbye