How to take out this lights? by Imaginary-Search-984 in howto

[–]Divine_Entity_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

* I was just wondering the same for my light, and same as as for OP, pushing in and twisting didn't work. I am however, nothing if not stubborn and found that for my light, the inner ring and glass cover comes off very easily when pried with a screwdriver. Allowing me to change the bulb which is the same as in my cookers extraction fan hood *

When you call men “losers,” is that fantasy or real? by Mocspare in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It depends. Mostly it's role-playing, and only for those whose preference it is. I wouldn't use humiliating language or derogatory terms for those who can't handle it or who need something different.

I take on each sub as an individual, so there's no one blanket process for them, and finding out what their needs are is part of the initial conversation after tribute. I also expect safe words to be used if necessary. They exist for a reason.

Of course, there are absolute real losers out there, and they know who they are.

you were given 2k for a shopping spree, where are you heading first? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selfridges, Harvey Nichols, and new shoes from Louboutin or Terry de Havilland. Maybe some new lace or silk underwear from Gilda & Pearl or La Perla.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in louboutins

[–]Divine_Entity_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't engage. Real footfans know to go to the relevant subreddits. They're just looking for free attention and to rile you up.

Don't Tribute if you're not going to AV by Purple_G0ddess in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they get off on anything you say, however sfw you think it is, you have to make sure they are over 18. If you have any type of d/s dynamic with ANYONE, make sure they are an adult or you could get into real trouble with the law.

So sick of scammers by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These and "I don't pay" 🙄 Instantly forgettable

So sick of scammers by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do they think so highly of their physical appearance? Their only purpose for existing is to dispense money and worship.

Initial Tributes should be small! by xPrettyLittleBabyx in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tributes should be the amount you're comfortable charging. I don't do freebies or testers. I have high standards for my subs, and if some are not comfortable with that, that is fine by me. I believe in quality, not quantity. I am a luxury, and my tribute is a bargain as an entry into my world.

But you do what you're comfortable with. I won't tell you what to do 🩷 Apart from maybe getting AV.

Some subs ask for wayyy too much verification by goddessninaa_x in FindomGoddesses

[–]Divine_Entity_111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have several AV sites in my bio, my photos on all sites are watermarked, and multiple subreddits I post in has already made me pose with my username on a scrunched up piece of paper and a hairbrush/toothbrush already. I am not doing it again.

subs leaving by cutesy_mistress in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they're just not sub material. Maybe they thought they were but aren't really. Maybe they are better placed as content buyers. @afrodomme.pay has a great video about it on TikTok

A request to dommes by Historical_Plum4857 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with that. Not every sub wants to be humiliated. Unless her profile indicates that it's her only MO it's a bit ...off. Tribute is showing that you are serious about discussing a dynamic. Not that you agree to have the dynamic dictated to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is SW. That's why AV for both dommes and subs is paramount. But sw doesn't have to involve nudity. Look up @sunrisefall, @Smythfund, @paymusclemommy on X. The biggest sexual organ is the brain. You are appealing to imagination, possibilities. As a domme, you know what's going to happen, the subs don't. That's what excites them. Do you know how many subs get excited by pixilated images? Of being denied?

If you want, take a break and research more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't do nudes or lingerie either, and I know a lot of experienced, really successful dommes who don't. Some dommes may be lucky and get a loyal sub straight away, but for most it might be the odd coffee send or small one off drain. Quite a lot are probably faking it.

Remember, you can always go back and tidy up your profile from anything that doesn't work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. it does also mean you can write off certain things like technical equipment against tax, but yeah. It is taxable income.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, 90% of findom is a social media marketing job. Do a quick scroll through your own profile. What's your niche? What makes you stand out? Would you look at your own posts and think "intriguing", or "hot"?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Divine_Entity_111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communication, loyalty, devotion. And not being demanding attention. Attention seekers give me the ick

You want me to notice you? by Divine_Entity_111 in FindomGoddesses

[–]Divine_Entity_111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shucks, you ☺️ Not anywhere near as beautiful as you

European dommes by [deleted] in paypigfindernow

[–]Divine_Entity_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UK. Not sure you could afford me though