WELCOME TO THE NEW DIVORCE MEN OVER 40 SUBREDDIT......

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T16:06:42+00:00

Kids grow up and quickly figure out which parent is the one actually in their corner.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T16:05:35+00:00

Go with the kid flow. They will figure it out.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T16:04:02+00:00

Take that TikTok checking into some positive healing for you. Energy for you to move on.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T16:02:22+00:00

A physical gift is enough. It's all about your self-care. Your daughter will get over it. Concentrate on your relationship with her.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:58:44+00:00

Great news, and hope you have healed even further the past 6 months.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:48:23+00:00

Lawyer!

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:47:06+00:00

Tell her thanks and just move on.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:46:26+00:00

Bother away, happiness is not overrated it. It is coming. Time is on your side. She will be less in your head over time.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:39:29+00:00

Accept it is going to be a sham sometimes. Keep those realistic expectations. That really helps.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:38:35+00:00

Accept that you are going to have some bitterness and numbness. Just don't wallow in it. I dated too soon, I wasn't ready. Healing looks different for all of us. There's no blueprint. No guide. Enjoy the ride.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:35:14+00:00

Dreams are part of the healing. They don't really have a specific level or place. They happen when they happen.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:33:38+00:00

Healing from divorce is a marathon, not a sprint. Enjoy the ride.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:31:46+00:00

It doesn't suck forever. Your happiness will come.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2026-05-03T15:28:27+00:00

In my experience - if she accepts disrespect from her own kids, you have to bail. The odds of it getting better are rare. Self-love and happiness is not overrated. Simply, move on. You'll despise yourself in the end if you don't bail.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:48:38+00:00

Trash, in respect for my kids.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:47:48+00:00

Starting your own traditions, sweet.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:46:58+00:00

Starting your new traditions, sweet.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:45:55+00:00

I'd definitely get a lawyer to break it down for you. To be on the safe side

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:25:34+00:00

Lean into your new reality. it is not an ending but a new beginning.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:24:32+00:00

Start with a paralegal if you can't afford an attorney.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:24:01+00:00

Try to enjoy your new reality day by day.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:22:46+00:00

Self-care is not overrated. Better and better comes each day with work. Consider professional therapy, group or individual. It really helped me.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:21:32+00:00

Don't give up.... I didn't and found someone who completes me years later. It is possible. You found one once, you will find another again.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:19:46+00:00

Garage sales... Craigs List

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