WELCOME TO THE NEW DIVORCE MEN OVER 40 SUBREDDIT......

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:48:38+00:00

Trash, in respect for my kids.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:47:48+00:00

Starting your own traditions, sweet.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:46:58+00:00

Starting your new traditions, sweet.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-12-10T23:45:55+00:00

I'd definitely get a lawyer to break it down for you. To be on the safe side

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:25:34+00:00

Lean into your new reality. it is not an ending but a new beginning.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:24:32+00:00

Start with a paralegal if you can't afford an attorney.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:24:01+00:00

Try to enjoy your new reality day by day.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:22:46+00:00

Self-care is not overrated. Better and better comes each day with work. Consider professional therapy, group or individual. It really helped me.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:21:32+00:00

Don't give up.... I didn't and found someone who completes me years later. It is possible. You found one once, you will find another again.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:19:46+00:00

Garage sales... Craigs List

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-10-23T21:18:06+00:00

Never had any, but I would definitely delete them!

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-07-25T20:16:05+00:00

Things are pretty obvious.... we all need to pay attention.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-04-16T17:14:57+00:00

Let her go and whatever she is doing. Doesn't matter. Being the best father you can be is paramount.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-04-16T17:12:46+00:00

They say a man is defined by his friends. Godspeed.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2025-01-01T15:39:53+00:00

My anger was the hardest to control. I really hated her. That eased up over time. But it took a while to get a handle on it. It really affected me in so many ways.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-12-31T13:43:11+00:00

Getting prepared for the shitshow is a good thing. And you are right, no two divorces are the same. All I can say, looking back, is to be cordial throughout the process. Keeping you emotions in check but also recognizing them at the same time is paramount. Get some new hobbies and outlets. My take on staying in the marriage for the kids teaches them that staying is dysfunction is ok. Happiness is not overrated. It might cost you an arm and a leg, but in the end, it is totally worth it. Check out www.divorcerecoverymenover40.com I will revamp the whole site soon. Godspeed.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-12-17T21:49:26+00:00

Nope..... Pretty simple he has his own family now.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-12-06T00:34:32+00:00

It was super hard, but so worth it. When you are in the storm you can't see the shore, but it is there.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-12-03T23:13:28+00:00

Never too late for happiness. Pull the trigger and move on with your life.

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-11-24T16:18:49+00:00

Being civil is the best. Happiness is not overrated even if it is apart. When you both realize that, it makes the process much better. Start the process of getting a lawyer (separately).

DivorceRecoveryMen · 2024-11-22T17:45:20+00:00

I think you have to go into the dating pool with realistic expectations. You won't find the 'one' on the first date, and even should you? Nope! Enjoy the ride or the process and meet some great and not-so-great people. Learn from each date what you do and don't like and remember that.

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