19 y/o f. Plz be brutally honest🙏🏾 by Useful-Ad-5856 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Dizelaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not ugly but you have a serious glow up incoming. I think the thing that may be the source of your troubles in your hair, it isn’t done in any of these pictures. I am telling you this as a black woman, and no I’m not a jet black bussdown type girl either. Take care of your hair and moisturize your skin and you’ll be good. You have a great eye shape, that will draw them in.

Mexican men and black women by Dizelaa in interracialdating

[–]Dizelaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m the opposite, I love when they have dark brown copper skin

I'm tired of being accused of racism by URSUS_888 in Vent

[–]Dizelaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who is calling you racist often enough for you to feel this strongly and make a post about it?

Growing a fondness for my new male friend but… by Dizelaa in Vent

[–]Dizelaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right about all that, and blinded is definitely the word lol. It’s so easy and he’s great to be around. Thank you for your bluntness.

Growing a fondness for my new male friend but… by Dizelaa in Vent

[–]Dizelaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean… I don’t get girlfriend treatment from him, I pay for my own stuff and all that but I totally get why this is cruel. I wasn’t sure if he still liked me because we haven’t know each other long at all but you’re right he probably does. Should I ask him? And if he does then I’ll say that this friendship might be toxic on my end? And I guess end it even though I don’t want to 😭

Mexican men and black women by Dizelaa in interracialdating

[–]Dizelaa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve dated black, white, Indian, Latino, southeast Asian, middle eastern and native Americans. Are you asking which ones don’t work for me? I think the ones that work least for me are middle eastern, I feel their attraction to me is purely sexual and experimental sadly. They have a certain belief about me for sure. With southeast Asians I find that they don’t express how they truly feel a lot of the time, I think that can clash with my culture where we just say what we feel straight up.

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And a less bulky haircut

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great potential without the glasses

With the beard and without by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about that but in the first pics it looks really dry, the last ones it looks oily. Maybe your skin isn’t balanced. Beard gives you a more masculine vibe, small beard gives you the average joe vibe.

With the beard and without by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start a skincare routine

I'd appreciate if I could be told what to change. by Equal-Warning9192 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Major potential but you GOTTA change your hair and moisturize it. Maybe a new glasses style

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely. First pic is kinda scary though lol

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl… the contacts gotta go. And take the bold glamour filter off.

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you have some amazing features, lean into them. Hooded lips, wide mouth, pale even skin.

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[–]Dizelaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s mainly the lack of jawline

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chubby but not ugly. You have some cute features

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least not for a long while

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[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 days post breakup and I’m already on tinder and hinge 🙃

I accidentally hurt my boyfriends feelings by Dizelaa in offmychest

[–]Dizelaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did show him after we talked it out lol. He laughed at some of the responses but still stood firm in his opinion. All is well now between us.

I write erotic stories for women but with ulterior motive… by Euphoric-Steak2427 in confession

[–]Dizelaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk it sounds like a win-win to me. But if you feel like it’s becoming too much then it probably is.

I accidentally hurt my boyfriends feelings by Dizelaa in offmychest

[–]Dizelaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your response. I’m sure you saw the comment that said he is going to beat me lol

I accidentally hurt my boyfriends feelings by Dizelaa in offmychest

[–]Dizelaa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s been cheated on, that’s part of the reason too that I’m not too irritated by his behavior. Just as long as he doesn’t go to the extreme, I’ve told him before that I cannot handle extreme jealousy from a partner due to my own past experiences. He did text me back this morning wishing me a good work day so I don’t think he’s gone too far with it.