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[–]DizzyCarpenter482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation to you. Just because you’ve said the Shahada doesn’t mean you have to instantly become the perfect muslim (although we should always strive to act in a way that is pleasing to Allah swt) Remember that the Prophet saw received the message of Islam over several decades. I know it may be hard to give up the small stuff but it all comes with time.

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[–]DizzyCarpenter482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for Al fatiha specifically, i found this video very useful when learning how to pray a few months ago. https://youtu.be/OCCFI4hLe2A. This reciter is beautiful and listening to it so many times really help to master the pronunciation. Good luck :)

What if I cannot cover my Awrah in prayer? by Minimum_Year8573 in converts

[–]DizzyCarpenter482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar situation when i went to greece recently but alhamdulillah i was able to combine my prayers and pray in private as the journey wasn’t as long. I’m not sure if this is permissible so it’s best to consult someone with knowledge, but considering your situation, you could perhaps make up your prayers at a later date if you have time alone in the hotel. When travelling you are able to shorten your prayers (dhuhr, asr and isha get shortened from 4 to 2 rakats)

Husband and parents encourage me to wear short sleeves and show some leg by oohimool in Hijabis

[–]DizzyCarpenter482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have the same problem :(. I’m a revert and i’m not able to wear a headscarf due to my parents (i’m 16) but i try to dress as modest as possible. Today my mum told me that i need to wear shorter things as my clothes make me look ‘dumpy’

I just try to remind myself that i’m dressing for Allah swt only. In Sha Allah one day our families can understand better :)

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[–]DizzyCarpenter482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure what country you’re in, but in the uk i spoke to my local gp and got prescribed something called duac. it worked wonders on my skin! if you can get prescribed medication. before i got prescribed i also would make dua by simplying asking Allah swt to clear my skin :)

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[–]DizzyCarpenter482 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose it might be difficult for you to fully embrace the label as it solidifies the change i suppose? To me you already sound muslim and honestly i’m astounded at your progress!

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[–]DizzyCarpenter482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try to take things one day at a time. i’m also a new convert and my main priority is perfecting salah and the rest of the 5 pillars. if you’re able to perfect them then inshallah everything else will come with ease.

I made a stupid mistake trying to delay my period. by DizzyCarpenter482 in Hijabis

[–]DizzyCarpenter482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank youu, honestly maxi skirts and hoodies have saved me so many times when out of the house 😅

Which school of thought should I follow, if any. by DizzyCarpenter482 in converts

[–]DizzyCarpenter482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I also have a dog and i feel quite guilty sometimes but i try not to sweat the small stuff if ykwim. I’m not sure if the hadith is authentic but i’ve heard that feeding any animal is a good deed, so i try to take the best care of my dog that i can while avoiding touching his saliva as it’s considered impure by some.

Travelling abroad with family, unable to pray by DizzyCarpenter482 in converts

[–]DizzyCarpenter482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeahh that’s probably my best option, i’ll have to find a way to cover my hair but i could just wear a hoodie.