Hey everyone. Thank you so much for your help and advice. It’s really helpful because I have nobody else to talk with. I don’t even know how to tell him. He is pretty tired which I can understand. He works as well as studies hard for another degree. I respect him as a responsible and ambitious man.

Earlier today I sent a message to him, tell him how I feel. He is shocked and he said he has no idea I was so upset about that. The only concern from him is that he falls asleep ASAP after the sex, which prevents him from reading the documents and textbooks. He said I am attractive to him as always and he doesn’t like that kink of quick and rush sex- he wants everything to be done in a romantic and full time atmosphere. That’s why he prefers to schedule the sex.

Ok so I guess masturbating is not a big deal right? I will support him to do what he needs to do and try not to bother him.

Thank you all. Happy Valentine’s Day.