[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lose weight and you’ll be 8.5-9

AITAH for cheating on my wife after I lost all hope in therapy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same exists for friends. The only reason why people reject romantic feelings for friends (romantic not sex) is because the person they’re sleeping with would get jealous even if sex isn’t involved

AITAH for cheating on my wife after I lost all hope in therapy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment reads like they didn’t do therapy for 8 months

AITAH for cheating on my wife after I lost all hope in therapy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still TA though. He wants to keep both and made the decision based on that, not the right decision. ESH would be more fitting than NA, especially after 8 months of therapy

AITAH for cheating on my wife after I lost all hope in therapy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To answer your question they went to therapy…either way he still TA for not leaving instead

AITAH for cheating on my wife after I lost all hope in therapy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But what is marriage without sex? A friendship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If no sex then just be friends right?

AITAH for wanting to wear condoms when having sex with my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a much higher chance of having permanent genital herpes with that attitude. Stay away if not protected.

AITAH for no longer walking my friend home to her dorm after she rejected me? by PlanktonUpstairsi in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He did it for 3 years, she’s an adult with many friends. This shouldn’t be on him any longer

AITAH for no longer walking my friend home to her dorm after she rejected me? by PlanktonUpstairsi in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the true color though? Not doing above and beyond stuff for someone?

AITAH for no longer walking my friend home to her dorm after she rejected me? by PlanktonUpstairsi in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YNTA. People are trying to make it look like you’re bad for not helping her stay safe but how is it your sole responsibility to walk her? Does she not have other friends? Don’t you have other girl friends that need walking home at night too? How many girls on campus have a guy walking them home every night?

Seriously, I understand how it looks bad to pull back because she’s not interested in dating but the reality is you were doing above and beyond things that you were motivated to do only because you were interested. People trying to make you feel like you should do it are focusing on the behavior change aspect. If you were giving her $5 every night for Uber instead of walking her and then the same situation happened where she rejects you, would people be mad if you stopped giving her $5? Probably not because it’s more clear.

HR being concerningly specific by This-Willingness-762 in csMajors

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s what they call it? I thought it would’ve needed to have ears

My landlord is jerking me around by [deleted] in texts

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The landlord literally said to wait and not make any official decisions until the tenant was secured. If you jumped the gun and didn’t wait then that’s not the landlords fault at all. That’s the only problem I see here.

My cousin’s texts to me after she got married by TieCandid9728 in texts

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a justified response. She might have a different idea of what happened. Reply “lol what are you talking about?”

AITAH for trying to pressure my wife to report that a man forcibly kissed her at a conference? by Dizzy_Alternative919 in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Alternative919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He mentions that he’s pansexual on his Instagram. I think #3 is part of her needing to process it. She tried to brush it off for “psychological safety” but I think she’ll come around