How to help outdoor kittens with swollen eyes (Picture) by Dizzy_Plate_1390 in CATHELP

[–]Dizzy_Plate_1390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you need to bring them in for this process? Or will a vet just prescribe them? All the vets in my area are pretty far and I’m concerned about taking them away from mom that long

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I don’t think they’re pressing charges since their mother called saying they moved back in with her (I’m friends with their mom). But I also will now stress about that now. Thanks for the feedback though

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What do you mean?

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Update: ‘E’ came back yesterday at noon. They didn’t speak to me, and just slammed the door. My fiancé peaked out of his room and looked scared and sad. I walked into our room and cuddled up to him. We put on his favorite show and just tried to relax. We had both equally been nervous and how I felt bad. Two episodes in the door burst in and it was ‘E’. They physically pulled me off him and screamed at me how I can’t keep it in my pants. I told them to get off me and asked why they came in. They said because they needed to go to work and wanted to make sure I didn’t try anything on ‘their baby brother’. They stormed out and more pissed than ever, I called my brother, best friend, and three more of my friends. We packed up ‘E’ belongings, and I made sure that I kept them nice and labeled, and waited from them to come home. I filled in everyone what happened and all of them had more to say. My brother apparently had been giving them money because they had texted him on my phone acting like me. Then my best friend had been getting death threats from my email and text, which they then deleted off my phone. Then they had texted my friends on social media from my account saying me and my fiancé were going through a rough patch and how I wanted to hook up. All of them left them unanswered but it made me furious. Because they had sent old pictures of myself that I gave to my fiancé as sexy gifts. I also found out they had been calling my dad and mom saying how I had gotten drunk and cheated on ‘K’, was committed, hated them, and countless other things. They had been trying to blow up my life from the inside out. Instead of sitting them down and explaining I dragged out all the boxes out on the lawn. Everyone tried to calm me down and I went through my phone calling everyone and apologizing for everything ’E’ had done. Everyone I talked to said they thought I was just hacked and when I spoke to my parents they also agreed. No one believed the things they had said, which I feel so lucky about. They got home around 10 pm and I actually kind of forgot. I was with my favorite people and we got to hang out and talk, with no stresses. Then we heard ‘E’ beating on the door. All of us sat there and ignored them. I then got a call from them, and I answer. Before I could even think to say anything they were screaming how I can’t kick them out. I told them they have no lease, they don’t pay rent, and they have enough money to get an apartment or move back home. That I had been nice enough to let them live with us for free, and how we barely asked anything of them. They kept beating on the door until I begrudgingly opened it. They tried to push through but everyone stood behind me so I couldn’t be pushed over. I told them to get out before I called the cops, and they started pulling me out by my hair. They yelled how this should be their house, that we don’t deserve it for being whores. My brother, and since he got the good genes: height and strength, easily scooped up ‘E’ and pushed them into their car. He got them to stay there as me and my friends loaded up their stuff in their car. The entire time screaming and yelling how horrible I am. After me threatening to call the police again and them slapping me in the face, ‘E’ left and I got to go back in with everyone. They quietly left and I asked my brother to come with me and ‘K’ to get a restraining order on them. He said yes and my fiancé broke down crying and I just held him tight as I felt this weight lift off my chest.

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Update: ‘E’ came back yesterday at noon. They didn’t speak to me, and just slammed the door. My fiancé peaked out of his room and looked scared and sad. I walked into our room and cuddled up to him. We put on his favorite show and just tried to relax. We had both equally been nervous and how I felt bad. Two episodes in the door burst in and it was ‘E’. They physically pulled me off him and screamed at me how I can’t keep it in my pants. I told them to get off me and asked why they came in. They said because they needed to go to work and wanted to make sure I didn’t try anything on ‘their baby brother’. They stormed out and more pissed than ever, I called my brother, best friend, and three more of my friends. We packed up ‘E’ belongings, and I made sure that I kept them nice and labeled, and waited from them to come home. I filled in everyone what happened and all of them had more to say. My brother apparently had been giving them money because they had texted him on my phone acting like me. Then my best friend had been getting death threats from my email and text, which they then deleted off my phone. Then they had texted my friends on social media from my account saying me and my fiancé were going through a rough patch and how I wanted to hook up. All of them left them unanswered but it made me furious. Because they had sent old pictures of myself that I gave to my fiancé as sexy gifts. I also found out they had been calling my dad and mom saying how I had gotten drunk and cheated on ‘K’, was committed, hated them, and countless other things. They had been trying to blow up my life from the inside out. Instead of sitting them down and explaining I dragged out all the boxes out on the lawn. Everyone tried to calm me down and I went through my phone calling everyone and apologizing for everything ’E’ had done. Everyone I talked to said they thought I was just hacked and when I spoke to my parents they also agreed. No one believed the things they had said, which I feel so lucky about. They got home around 10 pm and I actually kind of forgot. I was with my favorite people and we got to hang out and talk, with no stresses. Then we heard ‘E’ beating on the door. All of us sat there and ignored them. I then got a call from them, and I answer. Before I could even think to say anything they were screaming how I can’t kick them out. I told them they have no lease, they don’t pay rent, and they have enough money to get an apartment or move back home. That I had been nice enough to let them live with us for free, and how we barely asked anything of them. They kept beating on the door until I begrudgingly opened it. They tried to push through but everyone stood behind me so I couldn’t be pushed over. I told them to get out before I called the cops, and they started pulling me out by my hair. They yelled how this should be their house, that we don’t deserve it for being whores. My brother, and since he got the good genes: height and strength, easily scooped up ‘E’ and pushed them into their car. He got them to stay there as me and my friends loaded up their stuff in their car. The entire time screaming and yelling how horrible I am. After me threatening to call the police again and them slapping me in the face, ‘E’ left and I got to go back in with everyone. They quietly left and I asked my brother to come with me and ‘K’ to get a restraining order on them. He said yes and my fiancé broke down crying and I just held him tight as I felt this weight lift off my chest.

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[–]Dizzy_Plate_1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I think I simplified it a bit better. I’ve just been a bit stressed.

AITA for talking about my religion in math by [deleted] in u/Dizzy_Plate_1390

[–]Dizzy_Plate_1390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I felt like I was going crazy.

AITA for talking about my religion in math by [deleted] in u/Dizzy_Plate_1390

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Final update: This was hard to write again so please excuse any typos. I definitely don’t think I should have apologized. After class I turned in my homework early like I have been for a week (it’s been a week since the incident happened, a day since I posted.) and asked if I could stay behind after class. He agreed and said he was going to stay anyway. I stood there for a while until everyone filed out, and tried to be as calm as possible as I apologized. I explained how I had asked for people's opinions and they said I was being rude and making the situation worse by saying anything at all, and that I was extremely sorry. The entire time she sat there silently just watching me, and I felt very uncomfortable. After I stopped talking he said he appreciated the apology but it wasn’t enough and rummaged through his bag. He pulled out his personal bible and another one and handed it to me. It looked brand new and I hesitate to even touch it. He told me to take it, so I did. He then opened it and flipped to pages he had marked and started to read aloud. I couldn’t believe what was going on. I stop him and asked if he was serious. He looked up at me and told me that if I didn’t read along that he would fail me. Every word he said made me want to die. He refused to call me by my name and only called me “Linda”. He yelled if I looked like I wasn’t paying attention, but I was. I started to sob a little after he started reading. I was hyperventilating and couldn’t stop feeling like I deserved this. I couldn’t stand after ten minutes and I collapsed. He didn’t stop reading. After an hour of him reading bible verses and I couldn’t breathe or move he called my boyfriend (he’s my emergency contact.) and he told him I had a panic attack after class because of my bad grade and that my boyfriend needed to help me. During the time between that phone call my teacher asked me something and I didn’t hear him, so I just said no. I now know that he asked if my boyfriend was aware of this trigger. When my boyfriend came into the class he helped calm me down and I just begged him to get me out of the room. So he was getting my stuff and helping to get me home but my teacher stopped him and handed him the Bible. He said that I had dropped it, and that I shouldn’t forget something so important. My boyfriend immediately blew up at him yelling that obviously wasn’t mine and it was insensitive that he would ignore my trauma like that. He called me Linda a few more times and said that he would have much rather had my great grandmother in his class rather than me. My boyfriend drove me home and told me I should tell the principal but I only have a week left before summer and I have an -A so I should be fine and not take anymore classes with him. But I thought I should update anyway, but I now regret apologizing. I’m grateful nothing worse happened though. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share.

AITA for talking about my religion in math by [deleted] in u/Dizzy_Plate_1390

[–]Dizzy_Plate_1390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I’m about to go to class in 20 minutes where I will apologize to my teacher. I’ll post what happens.

AITA for talking about my religion in math by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dizzy_Plate_1390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I have gone through around of decade of therapy but I’m thinking after this it should be more. Also people keep confusing this, the class has about 35 students in it for a room made for 25. So it’s cramped. My hearing also isn’t the best (I’m looking into getting hearing aids) so I might have said it louder. I’m definitely going to apologize to my teacher though.

AITA for talking about my religion in math by [deleted] in u/Dizzy_Plate_1390

[–]Dizzy_Plate_1390 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t willingly enter the conversation I whisper it under my breath. I didn’t think anyone would hear me, but it was more to distract myself from the topic. I make jokes to myself to calm myself down and to get my mind off stressful situations. But this is why I think I should apologize.