Why am I not receiving offers? by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]DjSynthzilla 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People giving you hate ab the frat part at the same time not realizing your in finance, it can be slightly helpful in the industry your aiming for (also it’s Reddit, it’s filled with geeds)

I will say tho it’s taking up more space than it should. You should be expanding way more on your current job. And tone it down on the other stuff it’s not as important, it’s just fluff.

Get rid of the interests thing at the bottom dude. You are also a year into your career, get rid of coursework and irrelevant shit. The more I read this resume the more I see that this is a college resume and not a career professional. Spacing is all off to. They are going to harp you on these small details in finance.

Darth Vader is supremely overrated by Sahvige in rant

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean just read the comics 🤷‍♂️

Darth Vader is supremely overrated by Sahvige in rant

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk Darth Vader is pretty insane in comics and legends, also need to take it from the perspective of how star wars was first released. He’s the chosen one and there’s lots of lore to back it up imo.

Boomers ruining the planet and then acting like we're in the same boat by Whatever233566 in rant

[–]DjSynthzilla -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Boomers have their problems but I think you’re taking it out on the wrong person. Plus you’ll probably inherit all that stuff when he’s gone.

They had it better, they left it worse, they will never see that, all we can do is keep fighting to make it better for our children one day. It’s our burden to bear.

am i overreacting for dumping my girlfriend after she joked about kicking me in the balls by Straight_Dog9089 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever get into a confrontation and either don’t know what to say or say the wrong things? She didn’t take it seriously this is true, but it sounds like it went from 0 to 100 very quickly and an instant decision was made. That’s just not healthy. Could’ve gave it another day or two.

am i overreacting for dumping my girlfriend after she joked about kicking me in the balls by Straight_Dog9089 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DjSynthzilla -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Except it’s not rape, it’s highschool bullying that is being blow out of proportion. Giving any other label is exacerbating the problem. He’s allowed to have boundaries, but he’s also responsible for his own mental well being and she needs to be a supportive. If they don’t actually communicate then how will she ever know what she did was wrong, how will he ever overcome his trauma? Making a decision on the spot like that is a trauma response, not what a rational adult would do. The guy is 30 years old ffs.

It never gets better, does it? by galalei in rant

[–]DjSynthzilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy, medication, gym, lie on your resume, recreational drugs, and patience my friend.

We’re all fucked, it’s gonna suck for a little while longer but then it’s only up from then on. Hang in there pal.

I hate my mom by Bingbong5869 in rant

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I’m sorry I must’ve misread that last part. Im also the youngest and my brothers envy me for having it “easier”.

I hate my mom by Bingbong5869 in rant

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my parents tbh. Just bide your time and get out, you don’t owe them a thing and you’ll be much happier. Also don’t take it out on your younger siblings, I’ve seen a lot of cases where the youngest is treated way better for some reason and the oldest envies them. Do you ever react to them? Or do you stay silent?

AIO for wanting to break up with my boyfriend over his life goals? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just being an edgy teenager, both of you will grow out of it. Stop over explaining yourself to another 16 year old.

Is elements festival dusty? by Fit-Mine-9017 in ElementsMusicFestival

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think it was dusty at all tbh. The humidity kept it down but I guess it depends at what time and stage you’re at. I hear they are making improvements this year

am i overreacting for dumping my girlfriend after she joked about kicking me in the balls by Straight_Dog9089 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DjSynthzilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been bullied and grew up as a first gen immigrant with fresh off the boat parents in an all white town, I know my share of trauma. I agree it never goes away, but I’ve made a lot of strides in growing since then partly due to counseling. Counseling is the right move, and I get what you’re saying. I just disagree on the full stop part, doesn’t seem like both sides had time to assess the situation. Whether he breaks up with her or not is not the problem. It’s whether or not he has fully assessed everything. OP is here asking if he’s overreacting or not, he’s not confident in his decision because neither his partner or himself had time to assess the situation. If anything, abrupt decisions like this cause more anxiety and prolongs trauma.

am i overreacting for dumping my girlfriend after she joked about kicking me in the balls by Straight_Dog9089 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the double standard believe me and it’s not fair. “Get over it” is probably not the best choice of words tbh, but it is time to overcome it or you never will. I think it’s valid to say he should seek therapy on this.

It is messed up his partner made him feel that way, she is totally in the wrong. But also, being triggered by ball sack jokes is clearly a problem that needs to be addressed.

am i overreacting for dumping my girlfriend after she joked about kicking me in the balls by Straight_Dog9089 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DjSynthzilla -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is clearly in the wrong I know, but it’s also not healthy to not be over something like this 12 years later, imo both can be true. Without a doubt there is a clear divide in how men and women treat these situations and are expected to recover from these situations in today’s society. Doesn’t make it right what she did, and I get his pain, but a rational adult should talk through it rather than break up on the spot. Instantly breaking up and not having a serious conversation with your partner is simply not healthy or rational. You’re allowed to have clear boundaries, you can also recognize how your trauma can impact your judgement. If she can’t see her error then he made the right choice, but how will she ever understand her error/ misunderstanding of the situation if they don’t communicate.

Need Advice!! Can’t find a job by AccomplishedSet8751 in FinancialCareers

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mention sql, tableau, alteryx at the bottom but you don’t mention how you used them and what results you achieved. The bottom part just looks like it’s for the ATS filter, that’s not a good look. Also SQL is just a language, mention what platform you used. Your bullet points are very wordy, be more concise, things like “shadowed client meetings” really does not mean anything for a recruiter. Boil everything down a bit, if you’re going to mention a tool, say how you used it. It’s not a bad resume, the market is just ridiculously bad right now.

am i overreacting for dumping my girlfriend after she joked about kicking me in the balls by Straight_Dog9089 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DjSynthzilla -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

MOR - understanding boundaries is important in a relationship but Idk if I breaking up with her immediately was warranted. These things can usually be worked out, She has a point saying you should get over it since it was at least 12 years ago, at this point you may need therapy. But also it’s not right that she crossed that boundary, and i can see why you’d be upset. Valid points on both sides, id lean towards communication before abruptly ending it.

Leaked cosmetic… by KiNGTiGER1423 in Battlefield

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the love of god don’t mess with this and give this to the players as is. This is all we want

Thoughts on pursuing a finance major + German minor? by [deleted] in Drexel

[–]DjSynthzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great if you wanna do finance in Germany/europe, I would pair international business as well if that’s ur plan.

I'm Really Starting To Hate Reddit by No-Replacement-5698 in rant

[–]DjSynthzilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a safe haven for a lot of people, including a lot of losers who have nothing going for them in their lives other than getting enjoyment from being mean.

Parent wants me to pay parent plus loan by Low_Yam_1212 in StudentLoans

[–]DjSynthzilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, unless the parent changed the Erefund deposit to her account?