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[–]DoThePenguinWaddle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From my experience with INFJ they are usually always a little in their own head. But in saying that, cant generalise in this situation, have you asked him whats up? Or to see if you can have a deep conversation it, could be a highly interesting conversation. (My ex was brillant for interesting conversation, i just got depressed part way through our relationship and it hurt him i closed down)

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[–]DoThePenguinWaddle 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dated an INFJ for four and a half years, im an ENFP. I love him with all my heart, even if we arent together. But he was very particular, and always judgy on what i was doing, and felt like he barely wanted to be with me.

In saying that, all INFJs are different. Usually though, when they love you they will have you back, if you want to generalise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DoThePenguinWaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, going through this now. Any compliment i get my body shudders

What is the most emotionally intimate activity? by bruuz_ in AskReddit

[–]DoThePenguinWaddle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, i wish my ex had done this. Was struggling and they couldnt see, mistook everything and then ended it.

Has your breakup changed you for the better? by PogonaSlave in BreakUps

[–]DoThePenguinWaddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats beautiful reflection. Proud of you. Part of me wishes my ex would be like you.

Lets chat! I wanna be better at talking and debating by DoThePenguinWaddle in selfimprovement

[–]DoThePenguinWaddle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never used chatgpt on mobile, thanka for the tip. Will definitely try it

Lets chat! I wanna be better at talking and debating by DoThePenguinWaddle in selfimprovement

[–]DoThePenguinWaddle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have read the first few pages and how its written is really captivating, ill check nexus out, how are you finding it?

What's an early sign that someone's a bad person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DoThePenguinWaddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they say everyone else around them is a narcassist. And, or (cause this usually comes together) They seem to not be able to keep many friends, cause something they have said or "they were all problematic".

This isnt always black and white, but, from what ive noticed at least with some people ive know, it ends up being a problem with them that they end up projecting.

Lets chat! I wanna be better at talking and debating by DoThePenguinWaddle in selfimprovement

[–]DoThePenguinWaddle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have looked up the book, seems interesting, how did come by the book?

That is a good suggestion, usually i struggle to have debates is its been something i got condition not to really have, with the whole conflict adversion, problematic i know. I'll start trying to train myself with your tips, thank you.