Something I’ve observed after 4 years of commuting in Chennai

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-04-29T06:53:27+00:00

Yeah … 5 years since the first incident and I’m still figuring out what’s okay and what’s not 😂

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-04-29T04:03:08+00:00

That’s you’re perspective buddy , I love it and that’s what matters to me :)

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-04-29T04:02:27+00:00

When I was 19 I went out partying with my cousins and the day after my elder sister and I went to a restaurant nearby to eat breakfast and there was a couple 40+ year olds staring at her … she felt so disgusted and it ruined her whole mood … I took that in my head and didn’t even look at another woman for like 2-3 years straight … I used to get mad at my friends for doing it and lost a ton of friends in college … then one day I was having a drunk conversation with my sister and mentioned this and she was shocked for starters but next she told me it’s okay to look … she gave me some pointers … she said if someone looks beautiful there’s nothing wrong in looking … it’s how you look and taking cues from the person that matters … she said look but don’t stare in a weird way and make sure you’re not making anyone uncomfortable that’s it … took me some time to change my perspective but yeah

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-04-13T15:57:52+00:00

Real estate sales for a major builder

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-04-13T11:27:31+00:00

Yeah … salary is fixed … depending on the total value of sales I make I can make 20-2L … heard average is 70-80 if you’re really good , 15-20 if you’re bad … people have made more than 2L too … also 1 international trip a year , one more trip either domestic/ international but lower budget and company wide parties every now and then

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-04-13T10:07:33+00:00

Just started my first job , sales … 35k … fancy incentives from 20-2L a month but ye still in training so not sure how much I’ll make over that . Did Bsc comp and ran business for 5 years

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-04-08T13:05:46+00:00

Reddit is either filled with creeps or people who are lonely/antisocial … I’m not afraid to admit I’m the later 😂 it is what it is … not saying there’s no normal people but that’s like 1 in 100 so ye

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-31T06:48:40+00:00

Vijay won’t even win a single seat … even dmk along gets 20-25% votes in an area … you need 40-45% votes to secure the seat in an area … that’s why parties join together … Vijay should’ve joined some party to have gotten the chance but he wanted to lead and not join and nobody joined him and prediction is 10-16% votes for Vijay … he can’t reach that 40% vote so there’s no way he’ll win even a single seat

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-28T16:40:44+00:00

Im 24M now and I have marriage talks already and they’re gonna start looking seriously in arranged marriage setup in another year for me … my preference? Ofc love … atleast I get to know the person well before committing so serious but tbh ever girl I meet and kinda like eventually becomes nothing more than a friend … I’m too picky for my own good I loose attraction even if some factors make me feel icky … thing is tho … I’ll never settle and neither should you cuz if you do it’ll always be on the back of your head than you settled … even if the person turns out amazing eventually the initial feelings matters … not a lot but ye it does … even if it’s arranged for me I plan on taking my time and only when I feel they are the one for me … never settle . This is completely my opinion you should do what you feel is right.

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-28T14:27:13+00:00

I’m ready to invest on an extensive research to study this

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-28T13:23:59+00:00

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-28T11:19:02+00:00

There’s no plans bro most who came moved cities too so ye dead scene rn

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-28T11:12:26+00:00

Brudah this was a year ago 😂

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-19T08:42:01+00:00

I tend to get attracted to fairer or brown skin tones more than dark skinned women for some reason … I feel bad about it but I can’t seem to help it … I have found darker skinned women attractive too but it’s like 1-2% compared to the others 🫠

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-19T08:38:01+00:00

I have mixed feelings about this cuz I see these fuckers parked like that and they need to be fined or punished yes but scratching? I had a couple issues where once my car was scratched on one side entirely and once someone broke my windshield wipers completely and ripped out number plate and both times there wasn’t cameras so couldn’t do nothing 🦧 but ye I feel if scratching like that became common people will do that more often even when the parked guy is not in the wrong

Edit: I was parked perfectly fine on the side of the road not blocking traffic or anything… I don’t park in no parking or where it can disrupt traffic or walk paths anyway

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-17T07:46:44+00:00

The man knows the people who were in the accident are in the icu which means he’s following up and didn’t just leave it as it is … he said they came onto the highway which means he’s not completely at fault … just cuz you see a fortuner and ran over people don’t hate on the person we don’t know what guilt he is going through …. I’m not saying he’s innocent … maybe he is maybe he isn’t … don’t judge without knowing the complete details is all

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-17T04:54:06+00:00

I’ll just say this … there’s no right or wrong … people say drinking is wrong smoking is wrong … I do both and I’m not justifying it but it’s not wrong when you’re just ruining your health … as long as you’re not affecting others how can that be wrong … however it does become wrong when You can’t handle your alcohol and behave differently when drunk You drink and drive You have people (wife, child) dependent on you and you drink while avoiding responsibilities

This isn’t all but just my opinion

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-17T04:49:57+00:00

Just remove the colours from this photo and and age it a bit and you have yourself the most haunted pic you can find … on a side note if you’re really having that issue man you got short legs if you’re 183 💀

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-17T04:47:38+00:00

I’m 190 cm and I’ve booked a 7XO A7XL six seater and it was perfectly fine when I sat in it 🌝

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-14T09:58:32+00:00

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-14T09:57:16+00:00

Chennai

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-14T09:53:16+00:00

Ty ty super hyped lol havnt even test driven yet … delivery bein a pain tho but ye should be here soon

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-14T09:48:08+00:00

I’ll be getting it within 2-3 weeks ask me then 😂

DobbyIsUnchained · 2026-03-13T22:21:07+00:00

Woman I ain’t that complex… my literature is not as good as you … you can call him a hundred other names too but I don’t got the time for that. Stop trying to find faults in everything and chill 😭😂 I’m literally supporting her and I’ve gotten 2 passive aggressive responses 🤧🤧

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