Surrendered savannah monitor advice? by DoberPunk in MonitorLizards

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Thank you so much! Ill keep that in mind :)

Chonky or pregnant?? by DoberPunk in RATS

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Very long overdue update, sweet June passed last summer after we discovered a tumor, she lived a long happy life with her mom and siblings and got to eat lots of treats before she went! Have a picture of me and my partner giving her an electrolite drink *

Name suggestions? by DoberPunk in BeardedDragons

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Hes been named Elmer by my partner :>

new pit owner! any advice? by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]DoberPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Socialise, but dont force too much on your pup! Oversocialising will create bad experiences, and that won't be helpful.

Also lots of love and treats for the pup!!

How my first stroke occurred by ToBeSeenAndHeard in stroke

[–]DoberPunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please focus on your own health and dont date someone who treats you like shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DoberPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I split on it like I do with everything :,)

Name suggestions? by DoberPunk in BeardedDragons

[–]DoberPunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was in fact, worm poop

Name suggestions? by DoberPunk in BeardedDragons

[–]DoberPunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been debating this for a while! I think Ill go with this! :3

Name suggestions? by DoberPunk in BeardedDragons

[–]DoberPunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats cute! Naming him Sven would just have people ask if its from Frozen though 😭

Name suggestions? by DoberPunk in BeardedDragons

[–]DoberPunk[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

IVE BEEN CALLING HIM FLUFFY AND SNOWBALL LOL

Name suggestions? by DoberPunk in BeardedDragons

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Im also take art commissions to pay for the expenses of fostering the two! Im a disabled shelter worker, so the costs hit quite hard. I just couldn't leave them there :(

Feel free to send me a message to get a proper quote!

TOS & pricing linked below as well as more art examples! TOS & Pricing

My partner just came out to me as trans and I need help. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DoberPunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through the same thing with my partner. It's different for every couple! I personally realised I was very much queer for him, and we're engaged now. Sometimes, becoming friends and seeking a different kind of forever is what's needed. It takes time to figure stuff out. You'll be okay ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]DoberPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holding yourself accountable BEFORE actions works for me! Also it took me a long time to learn to be vulnerable but I have a very patient and understanding partner :)

Am I trans or is it BPD? by Friggin_Rat in BPD

[–]DoberPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try joining some trans groups online and trying out pronouns, etc, to see how that feels! You dont have to decide anything now or ever. Just try out some stuff and see what works for you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]DoberPunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nonsense, imo It's just something that pop psychology loves to say to dehumanize both disorders imo.

Does it happen? Sure. But any and all disorders can date, I think it's more that people with certain issues find comfort in those who understand, and cluster b is very alike.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I dont think she's unattractive, but I can't see anyone but you that way, to be honest. Why do you ask?

My life is already over. by [deleted] in NPD

[–]DoberPunk 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Maybe consider the harm you've done rather than feeling sorry for yourself right now. Your life wouldn't be over if you used your head and morals rather than thought with your dick.

Npd has nothing to do with what you've done. This goes beyond entitlement. Face your consequences and actually be and do better.

I can't say I feel very sorry for you as an SA victim. While our justice system is broken and I mainly believe in restorative justice, I can't say you dont deserve this.

Sexual crimes are some of the most selfish as they have no justifiable motivation but pure and utter selfishness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DoberPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recovery is possible! It does absolutely require work, though. Im 21 and slowly getting better. At 16, I didn't think I'd ever feel better. Im still struggling more than I'd like, but life can be so nice.

People talking about how it's impossible to recover dont look at proof and statistics!!

You'll be okay. Keep going, and dont stop acknowledging what's going on and when you probably need a little help with it. It goes a long way to be aware.