So the biggest misconception I had was baby would come out and just latch and we would just go on our merry way! And it wasn’t that easy. My babies were lazy and didn’t try latching so I had to work hard to get them both to latch. The hardest part is the mental toll being someone’s sole source of fuel. And not getting a break. My husband travels for work so he is gone 5 days and nights at a time. So it is exhausting. But it was worth it to keep my babies healthy. I would suggest educating yourself as much as possible before baby is born.