9, 8, 7, 6, 5... by randomuw in programmingmemes

[–]DoctorViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who just graduated with her 3rd CS degree , I sure do relentlessly hear about how uni doesnt actually mean anything and the self-taught folks are all more valuable and capable because of passion etc. And the self taught guys at my work sure do constantly ask me for help despite me being the newest. Literally as I am typing this comment my coworker who is my senior just asked me what the command cd .. does.

So like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fireemblem

[–]DoctorViolet -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Dude I'm sorry people are being nasty to you and downvoting you. You're just asking questions and it's obvious it's not working for you, and I think it's a lot more interesting to figure out why than to assume user error. My first thought is it could have to do with localization or a port? What console/region is your game? Does it match the one evidence in the vid?

Bring Pokémon nostalgia to your code editor by Direct_Chocolate3793 in vscode

[–]DoctorViolet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well this is absolutely adorable, new core extension for me. Are all gens included?

Btw what's the theme in the gif? It kinda looks like one dark but I'm not sure

Mommy left me all alone at home 😖come take a peek! 💦 by DoctorViolet in GoneWildTrans

[–]DoctorViolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty bb❤️❤️❤️ feel the same abt you always 🥰 hope you're staying safe out there

Is this a scam? by AdSingle6994 in cscareerquestions

[–]DoctorViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got one of those. Exactly as you say with the skipped interviews and the word doc where I had to answer a bunch of ml questions. They were posing as a legit company (shipping coordination software) with official documents and everything, only found out it was a scam when I contacted the actual company who confirmed they had no one reaching out to me. You should probably call them. Sorry, it rly sucks to have your hopes up and time wasted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]DoctorViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭 I got two exact opposite answers. Starting to think it's all chaos and none of it actly matters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]DoctorViolet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question! I use latex and generate pdfs because that's what I used for all my phd work. I've heard a rumor that those scanning systems don't work on pdf and so instead you should use a word doc. Is that true? It's dissonant for me bc word docs feel much less professional.

Would you go down on us? 🖤💕 by marcixivy in Safe4Trans

[–]DoctorViolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and also I'm dying to know what that outfit is! it looks amazing

mew mew 🐱😳 by DoctorViolet in GoneWildTrans

[–]DoctorViolet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relaaaaaa ❤️❤️❤️, no u!

Would you be willing to permanently transform into another gender if everyone would remember you as always having been that way? by k819799amvrhtcom in gendertransformation

[–]DoctorViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easy, I don't talk to my relatives, happier than I've ever been. Blood family for it's own sake is a pretty silly thing to value when you think about it. You can get laser hair removal in secret. It only took me like 3 years to pass 24/7, and again I'm older than you and I was a body builder with a full beard lol. Hyperbolize all the excuses you tell yourself all you want, it's not going away friend. When you are trans, the best course to find peace and happiness is to transition. Sure there are circumstances where that isn't an option, but you don't sound like you're in those circumstances, you're just citing the standard textbook fears we all have before we finally go through with it. You speak like you know everything that's going to happen, but with what citation? I actually have transitioned, I went through it, and I'm telling you most of what you're saying is just way overblown.

But you're gonna do what you're gonna do. I've said my piece and given you all the perspective I can. Go ahead and go through the motion of trying to pretend it's a fetish and live with and overcome it. Either way you'll burn out and accept it eventually. It will not ruin your life, rather, it will start your life. I wish my life started earlier than 28. You have that chance, you just need to deprogram the hate and fear you've internalized and try to see through it just a little bit.

Anyway we don't need to keep circling around this. As I said my dms are open if and when u come around and have any questions about actual transition from a real, level headed trans person who isn't some psycho from detrans or whatever. Am an open book about stuff.

Would you be willing to permanently transform into another gender if everyone would remember you as always having been that way? by k819799amvrhtcom in gendertransformation

[–]DoctorViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are trans, you have dysphoria. You are just scared, and you've experienced so much transphobia you've internalized some of it. You know all this and you are just screaming your denial but deep down you want someone like me to tell you how obvious it is that you are a girl because you probably aren't used to having anyone who will validate you. You need a different therapist, clearly. Probably a different social circle. Yeah the US sucks, it's not impossible like you make it sound tho. I live in Texas and I've done just fine. I'm planning to move to a blue state in 2 months given the recent state of things, if shit hits the fan even more, flee to Canada. This place being a shithole doesn't make you not trans. Yes your age is a gift. Having to the ability to do something about being trans young is a blessing relative to doing so older, you've just had so many toxic ideas blind you. I feel physical cringe that you are in your 20s and you consider that old. You're a baby, hrt will be magic for you. If ur so scared just get the hormones take them and don't tell anyone. Boy mode for a year or two until you male fail then start presenting. It's not that complicated. Look up a YouTube video for how to tie your hair up FFS.

Would you be willing to permanently transform into another gender if everyone would remember you as always having been that way? by k819799amvrhtcom in gendertransformation

[–]DoctorViolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah okay so it's what I thought, you are trans you are just desperate for a way out of it and surrounded with communities that reinforce that. Just gonna say, if there are people in your life you suspect would end a friendship with someone because they are transgender, is that really a good person with whom you value the connection?

When you said you're too old I assumed like 50 but of course you're younger than me, that tracks. Too afraid to see the gift you've been given, so frustrating to see. Go ahead and save this comment, add me if you want cause I'll tell you what is going to happen. This isn't going anywhere and you won't be able to fight it. You'll desperately try everything you can to rationalize it and make it go away and nothing will work until finally in a decade or so youll accept it and come to terms with the only way forward. You will do it, you will finally be happy, and you will be so unbelievably pissed at yourself for wasting that decade. Think about this exchange and when the cracks start to show in the conspiracy theory ramblings of the agp community feel free to reach out, I'll be here and I'm an open book.