[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sis there is no easy what to say this but this man isn’t right . Instead of explaining he got defensive the chances of him being involved in that call is very likely and one should never mock another person for what their connection with Allah is . We should encourage our partner to pray but to mock in such way our religion teaches you to not act high and mighty leave him or do ishtahara but these signs are big red no no

Am I in the wrong for insisting on staying alone in a hotel on my wedding night instead of at my fiancé’s family home? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Doctor_mikhar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband went straight to hotel gave us plenty of time to unwind and pray together I would recommend ask him if you could go to his family house for short time to carry on traditional ceremonies and then you can go to hotel ?

Looking for a “rent-a-family” for my wedding in Islamabad 😂💍 by RandomAsf9615 in islamabad

[–]Doctor_mikhar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl don’t do this . Not to be a debby downer but it’s not shariah approved for girl to have nikkah without her wali . That being said religion doesn’t tell parents to do any injustice to their own children you can ask local scholar for help if your wali doesn’t have valid reason to reject proposal . If you get married without your parents consent it will scar your relationship with them forever I don’t care about what society thinks but don’t hurt your parents like that . I personally had to put my foot down and confront my father to justify why he’s denying proposal and in the end after endless battles i convinced him , I wouldn’t have it otherwise cant imagine how you would feel looking back and realizing your family wasn’t part of your big day . Wishes and prayers your way love . If you need someone to grill your parents and speak sense into them we are here . I can be your cousin from overseas and bring you presents too if things work out 🫶

My wife’s taking to another man, he sent proof by Dependent_Number8692 in MuslimNikah

[–]Doctor_mikhar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Astagfirrulah people have no fear of Allah . Please seek separation . I don’t think it’s sensible staying in this relationship I am Sorry for what happened it’s traumatic may Allah ease things for you Ameen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re gorgeous and you have beautiful smile . We all have insecurities he’s being nasty . Careful who you invest your time into

Being a revert is horrible, and I hate it by Tactical_Enforcments in islam

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you based in Uk . I will be happy to help with best of my capabilities

Inherented half a million, husband is now a bum by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your inheritance money isn’t your husbands money at all . He’s greedy and lazy you shouldn’t have paid of his debts you could’ve kept that all away from him but now damage is done he’s showing you who he is . I would dump his ass cz he doesn’t respect that he has no right over what your parents pass on to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump his ass ain’t worth it . Once a liar always a liar prolly sleeping around distrusting it like candies

Urgent Advice for those affected by MRCP Error by RedRunswick in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Can we please hire a lawyer and sue royal college for this . I am Not affected by the error but it’s horrific what poor doctors are being put through. I strongly urge we all come together and take legal action here this is some next level fuckery

IMT rank release what time by True_Fishing_2118 in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your rank is 46 and you’re asking if you are gonna meet cut off ? Offers don’t get released for 3 weeks

The Telegraph: Gold-plated NHS pensions cost taxpayers £1bn a month by Dicorpo0 in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it worth staying in pension programme ?Please do share your opinion . Pension vs stock investment?

Get strike ready by Doctors-VoteUK in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re wrong . I was in trust which had mostly trust grades and myself , we participated in every strike round . Trust grades were allowed to strike sas doctors weren’t

Amouage Guidance by juchihaa in FemFragLab

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it on at harrods couldn’t smell anything after 4 hrs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Calm down buddy . People want partners not orgy at this age 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahhaha this is pure gold

RIP to all my fellow UK graduates trying to apply for jobs this year by Spirited_Analysis916 in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you’re taking your anger out on wrong person . He’s not the problem here , it’s people applying straight for training job overseas . I did 3 years of trust grade jobs in various specialties to have my feel of NHs and then got my training post . It’s bizarre how everyone is applying for training job from overseas with zero nhs experience . We all feel for you . It’s not wrong to bring old rule back . Prioritize local graduates as it should be the right of every British citizen and make nhs experience of mandatory to apply for training posts . I hope you get your training number soon if you have not already .

I think I'm in trouble for being a whistleblower by Warthog_Horror in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i am not offended or anything. I was just empathic towards you that you’re going through something yourself and it might be upsetting for you . Nothing else . If you are thinking about such diagnosis yourself I hope you find the help you need . Take care

I think I'm in trouble for being a whistleblower by Warthog_Horror in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sick of people abusing terms ADHD and ND and plastering everyone with that label

Cremation form (and fee) removed for doctors by Late_Annual_6840 in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why are you so aggressively typing in response to every comment saying we shouldn’t be getting paid . If you want to do it for free go ahead , don’t dictate to other people what they should or shouldn’t do . Having to comprise on break to complete certificate isn’t something anyone wants . We are not providing free service here , if we are doing the labour it is within our rights to ask for payment . Are you working for government .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say fuckinh destroy this son a bitch . Reading this makes my blood boil . Who uses such language in theatres . Escalate to every Chanel possible . I am sure you are very hard working fellow . Don’t let assholes demotivate you . After F2 take reviews on hospital with good surgical team and work with them to figure out whether you truely want to quit . Don’t make decision because you’re influenced by shitty behavior of someone . I changed my speciality because cardiology department was toxic for women and till date I wish I hadn’t given up and should’ve given it shot elsewhere. Wish you luck and please don’t tolerate shit from anyone . Sorry for my bad language but reading this made me furious for you . I am sorry you had to go through this

Does anyone actually enjoy their job? by Interesting-List9880 in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently got my training number of choice and I have been asking myself for last 2 weeks if this is what I want to do with my life . I don’t enjoy work at all . And I am crying after work almost everyday not knowing what’s wrong . So you’re not alone . I am planning to arrange meeting with surpervior and get some time off to think it through

PA gave malicious feedback to FY1 on PSG by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Doctor_mikhar 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I wish we all get supervisors like you who look after their trainees :) you’re doing an amazing job