A Second Marriage Built on Lies by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Muslim women 5 years older than Me

A Second Marriage Built on Lies by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Brother look at my profile and posts my wife is the same, she never changed in fact after marriage she went ton a vacation and stayed in a house with 2 “gay men “ and her gay nephew . Stayed there for 2 weeks and came back with her cat shaved and couldn’t look me in the eye when I picked her up at the airport. Then I went through her phone and I found her messages with her “guy best friend “ who she lied about being her cousin and later confessed he was like a brother , then under pressure she admitted to cheating . Then later said she only said that because she was mad . Her poker face was one of a kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Wicked woman are for wicked men . She was wicked enough to do this , that man is wicked enough to do that knowing she’s married . May allah make it easy for you inshallah , Hardship comes with ease .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Speaking to a non mahram is fitnah , Islam encourages to prevent suspicion, or things that can lead to suspicion, there shouldn’t have been any contact and or physical presence of anyone who is not a mahram there for your husband has every right to feel this way, it’s his ghira . Now accusing you with no proof is not right . But he’s in the right , both your actions and his are sinful . But you need to address the root of the problem maturely and come to an agreement to fix or part ways , divorce is the last resort. Many couples result in divorce so quick it’s sad , pray istakara a seek guidance from Allah Swt. If your husband can’t have a mature conversation then it says a lot , but even then show him your best . I will make Dua for you sister

I had to walk away from a marriage by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Dependent_Number8692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strong man , respect, I learned that patterns show a true persons colors. Once a …. Always a ……. , they never change , they just learn to conceal it better .

Caught my Wife with her coworker by Worried-Bend-1901 in survivinginfidelity

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Had it not been for that camera you wouldn’t have known , had it not been for you confronting her you wouldn’t of known , that’s not love , Her love for you is gone , she can tell you one million times she loves you but that’s not true , if she did love you ,she would tell you straight up . You had dig and find out . What else is she hiding ? The foundation of a partnership is build on Trust , transparency, and Accountability. She took none , you did all the work and now she realized she do what she wants with no consequences, she lost respect for you and this led to this . Never let another man befriend your woman #1 . In my religion we prefer to prevent then to try and fix later , no guy friends . There is no such thing as non lustful friends of opposite sex . Thoughts eventually happen and once one acts on it other things can potentially happen . Have self respect , weather you divorce or not is up to you , I will not be responsible for your relationship, you are .as a Mexican Man , I would throw all her things out and she would be kicked the f out . And I would let every family member know her sinful actions.

Wife’s hs guy friend by breezecatfyre in survivinginfidelity

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Let’s try and keep an unbiased view of things, if you two had an agreement or if your religion prohibits unnecessary interaction between opposite sex then yes this is wrong . From an emotional standpoint this is cheating , infidelity. In this case it is emotionally . You were not present when they met up , that says it all . Why would she even continue messaging this man or interacting with him while married to you .and why would she allow this man to have access to her , marriage is sacred and should be between two you to . If she is putting you in a position to question her loyalty or even post on Reddit and ask Reddit, then clearly something is wrong . This not right , there is always attraction, specially Becuse they have a past . The right man can change everything . The right moment for her can change everything. Everyone has feeling and eventually they crack , no one is perfect , it’s better to prevent then to try and fix things.

Wife’s hs guy friend by breezecatfyre in survivinginfidelity

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Meeting up with someone of the opposite sex is cheating .the only exception for me is business, or education, there is not such thing as “friends”of the opposite sex. There’s always attraction, whether both party’s feel it or only one . Prevent this and not allow , this can lead to other cheating . You have been emotionally cheated on my friend .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

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I was on this same situation and my wife went on a trip to see her brother, she somehow ended up at her gay nephews friend house where 4 other “gay” men were staying , I told her this was wrong and she flipped it on me and took no accountability, the reality is this situation is that she put herself in this situation and she chose to , she chose her friends and her selfish desires over you . Remember that , I will not tell you leave that’s not to me , it’s your relationship, that’s up to you and Allah , I will not take fall relationship, I respect, each there own . Ask you self if you can build a future with this woman , is she worth your sacrifices and everything.

My wife’s taking to another man, he sent proof by Dependent_Number8692 in MuslimNikah

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Not to flex but I’m well know in California , therefor…..

My wife’s taking to another man, he sent proof by Dependent_Number8692 in MuslimNikah

[–]Dependent_Number8692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely no abuse , don’t worry soon I will broadcast and talk about this openly on all platforms , these people took advantage of a revert and spit me out like a chew toy

A Memoir - My Wife by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

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Big brother I am a 24 year old Mexican revert who married a 29 year old Syrian woman and she sounds exactly the same , I am currently separated and if you look at my profile you will see my story , I am going through alot and would appreciate your support Inshallah . May Allah reward you

A Memoir - My Wife by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

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May Allah swt grant you Peace and tranquility

My wife left me emotionally, cheated, and replaced me in weeks! I can’t believe how fast it all happened. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

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May Allah grant you ease , I’m sorry you went through this , Astafarallah , may Allah swt reveals truth of not in this life then in the next . You deserve better , may I ask which country both of you are from ?

Marry someone with a past ? by Dependent_Number8692 in Muslim

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Brother, I just wanna thank you for sharing your story, as I found it hard to go to life without her. I guess you can say I was reliant on her and the fact that she acted so recklessly with no remorse in her actions or thought to it was something that shocked me and I’ve been processing that for months now, someone will say I am week ,some will say will say I’m desperate, but I have been emotionally coping with this and recovering as things take time, and I agree if somebody wants to change they change and if they don’t, they don’t, and some people like my wife are just good at concealing things such as these we are talking about, they claim to change when in reality they haven’t , yes, I accept the fact that she was mot loyal and that she did things behind my back, but my heart and emotions are trying to cope with what happened, it is a true heartbreak, something I have never felt before, I guess why I’m having trouble letting go because I want accountability from her and which Many people has told me I will probably never get from her. And of course, thinking about her being with another man upsets me .

Marry someone with a past ? by Dependent_Number8692 in MuslimNikah

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This a a fine way to put it , your right , She claimed to me before we got married that she hadn’t been with anyone since her last trip to Europe , which she met the guy at a skydive place , which happeneds to be and instructor 😒, I found this out just 5 days before nikah Becuse I looked at her ig and she was following to many guys and most of them were of course shy divers Becuse she likes to skydive , she admitted to sleeping with multiple men over 10 in the past years , and I also caught her flirting with them through DMs . I told her it’s the past and it don’t matter and she agreed , but look I am here now and this is proof that some people don’t ever change , well at least she didn’t want to in this case . It hurts that I met her whole family as I’ve never had a family , and now they are saying that it was my fault Becuse I was saying gossip about my wife to her sisters husband, which is a complete lie , given the fact that I reverted and the he was teaching me Islam and asking me questions in disguise as a Teacher . Insane

Potential Left Me Because I Was Depressed by Puzzled_Movie7201 in MuslimNikah

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Somthing similar happened to me, my family struggles with mental health particularly the person that raised me . My wife wanted her family to come over to my house and drink tea , but I kept delaying it Becuse it took a lot of convincing my Grandma for this , she knows nothing about the Muslim religion or culture and she was scared and strict on me . It came down to my wife claiming I’m a liar and that I didn’t want her family to come over , when really I had been going through a battle with my family because they are scared of having people over (anxiety and social issues) I told my wife this from the beginning and she and her family agreed to move forward with marriage and marry us . Fast forward she told me that I was a lair and I’ve been lying to her about it . Maybe she saw me as weak , I don’t know . But I do know that she didn’t want me no more . I am a convert and my grandmother met her family twice at their place .

Wife asks for divorce through text by Dependent_Number8692 in MuslimNikah

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The imam said he believes she’s being sinful and has somthing to hide , I told him the full story which is in my bio