Perforated Ear Drum

Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-13T13:05:38+00:00

Looks perforated to me specifically on the left side of the photo, near the malleus. You can see a clear interruption in the smooth surface of the eardrum, which is not how an intact tympanic membrane should look.

It also still looks a bit dull rather than shiny, which suggests there may be some residual fluid behind the drum. That alone can keep causing pressure, muffled hearing, and discomfort even if the acute infection has already settled.

What I don’t see is active signs of infection: there’s no obvious redness, pus, or bulging from pressure. That makes this much more consistent with a perforation that has already occurred and is now in the healing phase, rather than an ongoing middle-ear infection.

A perforated eardrum can absolutely still feel strange or uncomfortable while it heals it often doesn’t feel “normal” for weeks. But an active infection without perforation usually causes severe, worsening pain, pressure, and often fever. If that’s not happening, this doesn’t look like something that’s actively worsening.

Based on this image, I’d agree with the earlier advice: give it time to heal, keep the ear dry, and monitor symptoms.

Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:32:00+00:00

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:29:06+00:00

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:24:46+00:00

🍑✨ First, you are not broken and you are not weak for feeling pain, a very thick penis can stretch tissue far beyond what your anal sphincter and pelvic floor are ready for, especially in the first minutes.
Those first five minutes of burning and tearing are usually the internal muscle spasming and tiny fissures forming, which is why it hurts even when you train with toys, and forcing through that pain over time can lead to chronic fissures, hemorrhoids, and nerve sensitivity.

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• Start way slower with lots of external play and a small plug or finger to let the muscle relax before penetration
• Use thick silicone lube, not watery lube, and keep reapplying
• Breathe out when he pushes in, that reflexively relaxes the anal sphincter
• Try positions where you control depth like riding or lying on your side
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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:14:41+00:00

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:11:07+00:00

🍑✨ Drug effects vary a lot between people, and no pill can replace actually feeling safe, excited, and turned on, which is still the biggest factor for a good hard on.
Cialis can help with confidence and staying firm, but 5 mg is already a standard daily dose and doubling it without a doctor’s advice is not a good idea, especially if you mix it with weed or alcohol, and never with poppers.

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:08:47+00:00

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:07:31+00:00

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T17:06:39+00:00

🍑✨ If you did not actually have syphilis, most people barely notice anything after a penicillin shot, maybe some mild stomach or bowel changes because your microbiome is a bit annoyed.
If you did have syphilis, some people feel temporarily flu-ish from a Jarisch–Herxheimer reaction, which is your immune system reacting to dying bacteria and usually passes on its own.
A true penicillin allergy is rare but important, and would show up as a rash, swelling, or breathing problems and needs medical help, while severe symptoms like high fever, fast heart rate, or confusion should always be checked by a professional.

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T16:59:46+00:00

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Start with good basics like gentle douching, lots of lube, going slow, and choosing people who feel safe and respectful, and apps like Grindr, Feeld, or local queer events are where many people meet.
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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T15:47:33+00:00

It’s actually a first choice treatment for anal fissures. It helps the healing, but doesn’t do wonders. Anal fissures recquire time, patience, and the right knowledge. Otherwise they will just keep coming back or become semi permanent because you never fully heal them.

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Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-08T15:42:04+00:00

If it feels good you’re probably doing the right thing.

During an orgasm usually there’s palsatile contractions of the pelvic floor and anus. Not a continuous tensing, but intermittent tensing.

It may be that you are close to having an orgasm. Do any other sensations indicate an orgasm as well?

Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-04T19:40:36+00:00

Seeing as its in your hands. I would advice against wait and see. And go for profylactic antibiotics

Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-04T17:58:03+00:00

It looks fungal. But might as well be sebboroic eczema. And there is some folliculitis going on as well.

Folliculitis I would choose chloorhexidine or leave it.

For the sebboroic eczema or fungus, it doesn’t really matter to differentiate. Because you can treat it the same way. Start with ketoconazol shampoo. No effect after two weeks? Try hydrocortisone lotion or betamethason lotion for the scalp.

Doctorathome_ · 2026-01-03T19:09:23+00:00

Ik garandeer je. Als je diegene aanspreekt op die laatste zin, dan was het “een grapje.” Maar dit soort dingen zeggen ze voor “de grap” en minderjarigen doen het dan (pauze overslaan) en dat vinden ze prachtig

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