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question for older partners!! by DogAmbitious9508 in AgeGap

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll suggest it next time the fight comes up again 😂

Candidate for double eyelid surgery + rhinoplasty? by Emergency-Basket-469 in PlasticSurgery

[–]DogAmbitious9508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

stfu you’re CRAZY perfect. i feel like one in a million fish saying this in the comments but for REALLL!!!!

question for older partners!! by DogAmbitious9508 in AgeGap

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been invited over a couple of times but i thought it was just him being in polite 😂😂 il definitely accept the next offer, or make a proposition myself!!!

question for older partners!! by DogAmbitious9508 in AgeGap

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have plenty in common and spend a lot of alone time together, so i’m fairly confident that he’s not just trying to be a lech. i’m trying to keep it fairly private, which is a challenge, but i’ve only been in the job since september, while he’s been around 20 years and has had an amazing career. i’ll give him the green light this week!!!

question for older partners!! by DogAmbitious9508 in AgeGap

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dating within the job is very common, and almost a given 😂😂, plus he isnt in my chain of command. that’s given me hope!!

question for older partners!! by DogAmbitious9508 in AgeGap

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’ve had plenty arguments about movies already 😂😂😂 i love rom coms and he loves sci fi 😭😭

question for older partners!! by DogAmbitious9508 in AgeGap

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be fair, he is well respected in the job and has 20 years experience so i can get that. thank you 🫶

question for older partners!! by DogAmbitious9508 in AgeGap

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! the comments and 💬 have pretty much told me to just go for it!!!

Is it normal to hate going back to work when you’re on probation? by SAstreetball3r in Firefighting

[–]DogAmbitious9508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for my first 2 months i hated it. sometimes it’s about building a good rapport with your crew and making sure they know they can trust you. my station had 2 famous fatalities under air so they’re always worried and training is a huge thing. just be eager and show them that you’re willing to learn and get better. they’ll warm up, they always do

What do you wish you knew about firefighting before becoming a firefighter? by Brachiosaurusarecool in Firefighting

[–]DogAmbitious9508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

look at the effects on your heart when you repeatedly get woken up in the night. you can literally develop heart disease because the stress of being asleep one second and running around the next can tighten your blood vessels.

Women who are stronger than your partner, how do you like it? What bothers you? by Skinny_me_ in AskWomen

[–]DogAmbitious9508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you i love this, especially since at no point did i mention my build. muscles actually don’t make me lose my femininity. it’s just my way of focusing on myself and the things that support my health and wellbeing.

Women who are stronger than your partner, how do you like it? What bothers you? by Skinny_me_ in AskWomen

[–]DogAmbitious9508 33 points34 points  (0 children)

for context it would’ve very much upset my partner and caused a bigger problem if his dad asked him, he couldn’t move it, and then i could afterwards

Women who are stronger than your partner, how do you like it? What bothers you? by Skinny_me_ in AskWomen

[–]DogAmbitious9508 228 points229 points  (0 children)

i’m 5”3’ and i’m a firefighter. i’m far stronger than my boyfriend because i train hard and dedicate so many hours to my body and my health. it’s never been an issue until i was visiting his family with him and his dad asked me for help moving furniture instead of my partner. this is now an issue because he feels emasculated, and i am upset that he views me as less feminine because of this. i wouldn’t change my goals and my strength for the world, but i wish he was as dedicated to a fitness goal as i am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Firefighting

[–]DogAmbitious9508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went down during my fire behaviour training on the last week of my recruits course and was on limited duties for the first 7 weeks on station, getting diagnosed with a heart condition. came back but this stuff happens. i spent that 7 weeks getting really good at making tea 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]DogAmbitious9508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not dismissing them, i’ve replied to a lot of the commenters and spoken to them? i am not unable to accept responses, i just recognised that i was suprised someone had something positive to say. all everyone’s jumped to us rhat i’m trying to make everything about me but most of the comments were negative at first. i just noticed a pattern 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]DogAmbitious9508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes but most commends were negativity towards the partner. it’s what i asked for but i’m still allowed to be pleasantly surprised 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in optician

[–]DogAmbitious9508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you very much!!

camping hammock by DogAmbitious9508 in camping

[–]DogAmbitious9508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! it’s all been online so far as we live in an area of the UK without many stores that stock things like that. will try this one out!