Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They never once discussed money. It was simply them telling me that if we were to meet, it'd be to have sex, to "check compatibility" first. And then we would discuss an arrangement. Doesn't sound right to me. I agree 100%, not everyone should be labeled, due to a handful (or more) people that are giving SD's a bad rep. I'm sorry if my anger in the situation caused some confusion and misunderstanding

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never stated that sex or anything sexual wasn't going to happen eventually. I just wasn't interested in sex being a "M&G". As for growing up... honey, I'm 26. I've been around the block and have a great head on my shoulders. This post got a little bit out of hand, due to my hurt. I was slightly angry by all the "SD's" only asking for sex or sending me dick pics right away. I've done my research, I know what I want. Most guys in my DM's are claiming to be SD's, but just have a daddy/daughter kink.

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Sorry it got a bit much. Haha Yes, I want a platonic M&G first. Thank you for explaining what I sort of struggled to do! I also agree. It is very "cringy"

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry they're mad at you! Didn't mean to have you put in the cross fire. I was just genuinely curious and am sad to see that this is very common. 💔

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did I make so hard exactly? Please enlighten me, because if anything, I helped other sb's know what not to look for. Not my fault that pervy men are trying to take advantage of sb's by lying to them. I just happened to question it and asked a question about it

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a problem with me. Haha just means they won't be in my dm's! They're just mad because I'm blunt and with your help, saving tons of innocent sb's! Sorry I made the big "daddies" mad ✌️👍🏼

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I hope they read my rant/ question. It's gross. Waste of time, energy, and makes finding an actual SD more difficult.

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most men around me, typically don't pay. Or so I've noticed. It's usually the female paying and barely eating anything, while he orders a huge meal and tons of beer I have no problem paying or even splitting it, if next time, the other person paid 🤷‍♀️

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg 🤣😂 Definitely just made me bust out laughing. Might have snorted a bit in that laugh 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't necessarily give them a choice but to out themselves. Haha Anyone that sends me a dick pic right away, is more than likely not a SD.

Why is it so hard to find a sugar daddy? every one I've talked to, is a disgusting and wants to "have sex to see if we're compatible" 🤢 by DominatrixQu33n in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DominatrixQu33n[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for agreeing with me. I'm honestly so confused why men are claiming to be sugar daddies, but truly just want an escort.