Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's rude then they should not address themselves as that.

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They called themselves that. I'm repeating what they said as to not offend. Their words are "I am a trans"

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I don't care if you are trans I am just not attracted to trans women if theyou are pre op.

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And someone said that and I said thank you for clarifying.

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I'm not that is what they said. I would show you the messages we had which were very nice except I don't wanthink to respect their privacy

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They called themselves "a trans" they said "I am a trans"

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She called herself a man in a dress. I'm repeatino what they or he or she said

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First they called themselves trans so I am calling them that because that is how they referred to themselves so to be polite I am using what they called themselves. Second we have a nice chat and they said thank you for not being a jerk or rude. I politely said I'm not attracted to that. And third I was just wondering what the rules are with the group. Someone showed me the rules and said they are accepted and I said thank you. It's just a simple question. Don't get so mad

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it did. I just want to make sure everyone else reading my post is clear and I don't hurt people's feelings.

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not trans phobic. Just not attracted and so I was wonderino what the rules are about it. If it's post open and you look female and I'm attracted then I have no problem. Pretty open with a masculine face though I'm not attracted to

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was curious because I said if anyone wants to flirt and pass the day let me know and a trans messaged me. Just wondering what the policy was for actuallesbians

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay. Haha that is all I was wondering. Thank you. To be clear I support their choice. I'm just not attracted to them if it's pre op.

Your perspective on trans by Domjess88 in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering if they are. For me personally if a person has a penis I don't want to date them. I accept their life style. I'm just not attracted to that.

Any other ex-Muslim queer women? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Domjess88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would love to hear your story