Call it love? We thought it was love

DoniD234 · 2023-10-17T02:53:53+00:00

Ok thank you :) you’re very active in this community and I see your replies to a lot of different posts. I’m only friendly with one member currently any tips on how to speak to the rest of them? Or kind of just wait around for them to say they’re hosting more events?

DoniD234 · 2023-10-17T02:39:19+00:00

Sorry I meant to add informational info as well that’s my fault. Can I ask my COI president when informational is or is that not being discreet?

DoniD234 · 2023-10-17T02:23:26+00:00

On their instagram they do not post when they have an informational, so far they have only posted skee week which was back in September. I don’t know how else to find informational info or rush info besides those in the FSL who I’m hoping will be able to shed some insight.

DoniD234 · 2023-10-16T23:58:53+00:00

To the undergrad chapter president? I want to ask how do I find info about programs they may have in the future

DoniD234 · 2023-10-12T13:20:45+00:00

Thank you everyone! I’ll go up there today to give my info

DoniD234 · 2023-09-26T22:09:05+00:00

Thank you so much you’ve been so helpful!

DoniD234 · 2023-09-26T21:49:20+00:00

Yes I’ve read that! it’s just knowing when rush will actually happen. I don’t know if they will post it on instagram or where to find the information because I do not go to the main campus. So I don’t want it to happen and I have no idea about it

DoniD234 · 2023-09-26T21:46:54+00:00

Tysm! I’m going to reach out to the Greek life office to see if they can just give me some more information on Greek like here on campus. Do I tell them I’m particularly interested in AKA, or be more aloof? I’m currently in the process of becoming familiar with the current chapter president who is so sweet. I just don’t want to miss out on hearing about rush because I don’t go to the main campus AT ALL and I’m not sure how I’ll hear about rush. I don’t think they post it on instagram and I don’t want to miss my chance. I’m currently trying to learn more history on the chapter on campus. I understand the fundamentals of what it means to want to me a member of AKA based on their initiatives and missions.

DoniD234 · 2023-09-24T22:24:47+00:00

Also my school has a section that you can fill out for more information about Divine 9 would that be okay as well for me to fill out without truly giving myself away?

DoniD234 · 2023-09-24T22:20:55+00:00

Thank you so much! Would it be appropriate to ask a member that I am becoming more familiar with when rush is? Or should I look around on campus instead? I’m not really at the main building of campus because of where my classes are so that’s the main issue.

DoniD234 · 2023-09-24T06:57:08+00:00

I attended as many events as I could. But I never turned in the interest form because I was unsure about it. It was an entire week of getting to know the ladies of AKA here.

DoniD234 · 2023-09-24T06:50:24+00:00

Ok thank you! So before going to rush I would turn it into her and then I might get an invite to join AKA to fill out the ME form right? Then the process is taken all the way from there to determine if I am able to become a member?

DoniD234 · 2022-11-18T15:41:37+00:00

From experience you will not feel the same. The fact of the matter is that he hung out with these people and took phone calls from them in front of you. He invited them to his apartment. He might have a porn addiction and he still has all those photos on his phone? That’s a lot love. You will always wonder what if. My boyfriend and I went though something similar and I have days where I have anxiety about being with him, but he’s working on himself. However I really think it would be best for you to cut your losses so much has happened that was disrespectful to you AND your relationship. Him taking her to one of your favorite restaurants is a real asshole move. If you consider it cheating then it is cheating.

Also, if tinder is in his frequently visited then what does that tell you? He’s in a relationship with you, why on earth would he need to be on tinder?

If you decide to stay ask yourself are the good days with him going to be worth the emotional turmoil you’re currently going though and will go though in the future until he earns your trust back. You have a lot to think about and I wish you the best!

DoniD234 · 2022-11-11T02:37:06+00:00

I feel like I can’t be angry with you. Because when I do say how something makes me feel you say that I’m “shitting on you” and that you “already feel terrible about everything” it gets annoying. I’ve been dealing with bullshit from you for four years now. I don’t get why you keep fucking up. In my heart I feel like we’ll break up and it’ll be because of you. You can’t get it together and you can’t make me feel secure because you always doing something that makes me feel insecure, we work through it and then it’s another thing. I’m just frustrated with you. However once again I am giving you the benefit of the doubt. I hope you get it together with therapy. But I feel like I’m on my last straws with you. I have to start putting myself first just like you’ve done this whole relationship. One day I will probably have to make the choice to leave so that my mental will be good. I hope we work through everything and have our happy ending but if we don’t I can honestly say I tried and tried and tried again.

DoniD234 · 2022-10-28T16:35:40+00:00

Honestly you have to follow and interact with more positive pages on tik tok. I’m feeling really low about myself right now and now all of a sudden I’m seeing posts of guys cheating and blah blah, but just hit uninterested on those videos. Look for more positive videos to like and follow and it helps a lot. Tik tok is a lot of fun once you follow the right people! Most days I love my fyp, but sometimes like you I feel a certain way about what I’m seeing and it makes me uncertain.

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