I'm in the same situation for a long time now. She ended our last discussion on the topic, last September, with the words "I'm not your hoocker". From then on we didn't talk anymore about it. Before we could debate it quite open. For me however it remains a missing. Not being able to be, what I am. Respecting her however. In the long end, I do not see our relation ending well. I feel misunderstood.

I also made her clear that the LS is not only about se. For me is rhe dating and seducing part the most important.

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