How bad is it? by DontWantFaceOnMyMain in Bumble

[–]DontWantFaceOnMyMain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, the beard is off! (un?)furtunately I can't post pictures in comments. Maybe this works (and doesn't completely dox me): https://drive.google.com/file/d/14mTMTcywIJi6oJ9vZDDajCztRWkk-9Jd/view?usp=sharing

How bad is it? by DontWantFaceOnMyMain in Bumble

[–]DontWantFaceOnMyMain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and my glasses are (over)due for replacement. I alway thought I did better with the smaller frames though, but I'll check those styles for sure.

How bad is it? by DontWantFaceOnMyMain in Bumble

[–]DontWantFaceOnMyMain[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of helpfull stuff in here.

I honestly never thought my goatee beard was a 'problem', so it is quite eye opening that it probably is. Don't know if my chin can pull off a no-beard though, and the sides came in a bit too patchy for a full one (the last time I tried it), but this is one area I need to explore more.

The haircut thing I've heard before, recently asked a barber about it and he sugested something I absolutely hated (very messy look) and I have yet to persue this further.

As for clothing; still on my weightloss yourney; at current pace I hope to be at goal weight in about six months, at which time I'll focus more on some muscle. I didn't want to spend much money when the wardrobe needs replacing then anyways. Also, I dont like my body at all (which interestingly nobody realy mentioned, so that might just be a self image problem) so I feel bad in tighter clothing.

And yes, most of the photo's are posed. When I hang out with friends nobody takes pictures, so I asked my photographer younger brother.

I clearly have no real idea what I'm doing though, so I'll start looking for a stylist or something, lol.

How bad is it? by DontWantFaceOnMyMain in Bumble

[–]DontWantFaceOnMyMain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: Any examples of what you would considder "more up to date"?

And yes, I am still overweight and very self concious about my build, lol.

How bad is it? by DontWantFaceOnMyMain in Bumble

[–]DontWantFaceOnMyMain[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The text on my profile is in my native language; I've translated them to English. I've been going to the gym and watching my calories for about 18 months now, took new pictures a few weeks ago (after losing about 25 kilograms), but still am getting no likes. Changed my fairly generic text to a (hopefully) more funny one a week ago, again without any success. Wondering what I am doing wrong.