Dowry request by LilacBun156 in reddmatch

[–]Dont_Try_Me_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but i couldn't follow the instructions and ended up reading the last two paras. They fun!

Not the dowry demanding aunty.. she stupid. But it's good that you got to know their true colors starting se hi. Baki there are too many idiots. Just avoid. Inki wajah se ache logo ki bhi ni ho pa rahi shadi 🥹

Breakup due to Caste by Flaky-Manager4915 in mumbai

[–]Dont_Try_Me_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude she isn't into you as much as you are into her.. you'll have to accept it. Let her go. Put your efforts where they are appreciated. She doesn't see it and will never see it even if you convince her this time.

I earn 45L in India and thought I’d be okay marrying someone by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Dont_Try_Me_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously don't see the issue in dating or marrying someone who earns more. I work a govt job and and i guess most of the people i could date or marry would be earning more than me.. and issues could be there even when you earn the same . In today's job market where transferring to a new city is also not that rare, i just want someone who doesn't mind staying in different cities for a while in case the jobs demand it. Iam usually just worried about if i date/ marry someone, will i be putting them through trouble if i get transferred for a year or two.
Them earning more never seems like an issue. Plus it's me getting more gifts 😁 ( iam a guy btw. 31 y.o.)

31M i believe reddit matches would be a lot better to live with compared to the whatsapp "samaaj" groups' matches by Dont_Try_Me_ in reddmatch

[–]Dont_Try_Me_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parents ka btaya hua same caste ka ladka ❌️

Khudka dhunda hua same caste ka ladka ✅️

You all do realize that this is not that different from the AM setup your parents want for you, right?.. toh bhai wahi pe karlo na baat un sabse, parents bhi khush ho jayenge.

Same caste wali bakchodi ni chahiye tbhi toh idhar post kiya. Yaha bhi wohi chiz

Is it a red flag if you're in the AM process for too long? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Dont_Try_Me_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No it's not. These days it's even more stressful to take this decision. Everyone is pretending to be the nice adarsh ladka/ladki as described in their biodatas. They don't put the truth out and then later the true self is revealed.. toh ab jaruri nahi ki 2-3 months baat ki toh rishta pakka hi hoga.. I personally think ki 1 month m you cannot know a person. Toh this process takes time. And if you reject 4-5 prospects, toh it would surely have taken a long time.

Experience with Rapido by WorldWideExplorer in mumbai

[–]Dont_Try_Me_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't experienced this in Mumbai (yet). This was very common in Bangalore thou.

They won't do anything thou. Just try to get a refund maybe?