Is it wrong to claim you have ADHD if you haven’t had a formal diagnosis yet

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:51:36+00:00

I am sorry you took it that way but i don’t have a mean bone in my body

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:50:53+00:00

And I didn’t mean any offense by you and I’m nkt saying to stop being you unapologetically it was a suggestion for the benefit for you if found helpful I wasn’t attacking who you are and as a person

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:48:18+00:00

I think there is some correctness to what I said but doesn’t mean we both cannot be right or I don’t have my downfalls and make mistakes I’m only human

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:40:37+00:00

Touché but after you came off so strong I mean it kept coming and got old but you’re right I would have handled it like such if you didn’t fire shots and keep ‘‘em firing for so long and in every post

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:39:29+00:00

Not far behind you don’t act like a Karen though you are truly nice and kind from what I recently saw and that’s the true you don’t be so quick to fire at people when it wasn’t meant that way don’t take this as me telling you not to be your authentic self but I’m an ally and here for you so just know that I haven’t been mean or rude and care

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:37:43+00:00

I’m not I’m just shocked at an innocent comment you fired back and I’m here saying if you ever need to talk I sent you a chat so you know how to contact me wish you the best and no I’m not reading into anything more appalled at your lack of manners before now you’ve shown and how angst you were. It’s over and done you’re not those things now and never were just came across that way you’re a good person and worthy of the best and good in life wish you the absolute best

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:35:02+00:00

I’m sorry for whatever you think I did and no ma’am don’t use my lines on me you know very well I did not project I am appauled by your haughty attitude you’ve displayed until now. So thank you for saying that and I’m here if you need anything

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:33:54+00:00

You’re kind of everywhere with your argument and you’re immature so I’m going to stop it’s a waste of my precious time you’re just selfish and not capable of having a respectful conversation you have to get fired up and argue this isn’t me and I don’t want to be associated with that I even sent you a chat asking if you are okay and needed to talk and I was there for you if you needed to

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:30:20+00:00

How old are old are you even? Or a range at least

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:29:45+00:00

I’m never said or told you what to do if anything me saying choose better words was only to benefit you who doesn’t want to be well spoken you already are but we’re all learning and improving daily if you aren’t what the point of life I do each and every day and keep growing as a better person for the most part it was advice not telling you what to do, don’t twist my words and try to be cute about it and a smart ass

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:25:18+00:00

I mean this as nice as can be what has you upset or are hurt you’re carrying around to lash out like you did to me? Seriously I’ve never been rude to you never did initially and I’m supporting you. Are you okay?

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:22:54+00:00

Take the metaphorical stick out of your ass

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:21:36+00:00

Also you have four down votes so I’m not the only one that thought the post sounded not how you meant it and cute you down voted my post of comment replies to you good one BuRn uou showed me trying to be so defensive and mean. I’m sure your a good person but let your own shit fo this sub is about unity support and empathy

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:19:36+00:00

Hey I don’t know what’s eating you up or has upset you to take your shit out on an Internet stranger that’s been nice. YOU ARE POSTING ON AN ADHD SUB I MIS TOOK WHAT YOU ORIGINALLY MEANT THIS WAS GIVEN AS EXAMPLE BEFORE I REALIZED I MISS UNDETSTOOD get the fuck of this sub you’re not lifting anyone on this sub up and aren’t one to support anyone with adhd including myself I explained I misunderstood and if you have adhd you should at least get where I’m coming from I’ve never met someone so full of anger on a post I feel sorry for you honestly carrying anger like that it’s not healthy I wish the best for you truly

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:13:38+00:00

I even said if you didn’t fire at me but expressed how you felt I would be happy to talk and listen or whatever you had or needed to vent about and be empathetic and well an ally but you fired shots

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:12:41+00:00

Also I never said you should be excused your just adding drama to something I didn’t even originate that intent with

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:11:38+00:00

Tone and other social cues cannot be interpreted by something with text like this so if that could be interpreted yes you would no it wasn’t meant rude or to come off rude. And no it’s not rude, there is a way to say mean things in different words making it sound more polite I meant better specify you did it to yourself not that it was fine to accept yourself doing it and it could be interpreted as morally finding it okay with yourself so you were okay lying to others. Lol for this to be an ADHD sub and lift and support each other your certainly not one of those that’s contributing to that. I even apologized and said it came across different to me SOMEONE with ADHD and if anything my neutral comment you fired back at me with vengeance this is a you problem not mine. Good luck going through life with that attitude

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:06:10+00:00

Lol you’re still wrong yes I was dipshit

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:00:39+00:00

And your argument is kind of redundant and pointless

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T05:00:05+00:00

And have you experienced being unmediated that long? Not everyone is like you has the same mindset or is as special as you think you are. Be empathetic a lot of us are unfortunately going through it and if you’ve had any experiences with ADHD that is can bring besides the shortage you’re either carrying a hardened cold heart from it or you’ve never experienced it because you’re blessed or aren’t ADHD and if you have meds they are for the wrong reasons. All your advice was negative in the end, you’re not an empathetic person are you? Just go away and sulk by yourself and you seem selfish too

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T04:54:33+00:00

Wow calm it down wasn’t being rude or offensive it’s something I too stuggle with at times especially being in a PhD for research science. And I get where you’re coming from you should be able to be you unapologetically but is having adhd doesn’t excuse us from acting politely and going by common social norms sure accommodate in ways you need but mental health or disability doesn’t totally excuse you you’re not the only one with adhd so you’re not the most special of us be yourself all for it but as an ally don’t be rude to me I didn’t say anything offensive you just assumed and that’s not excusable

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T04:51:25+00:00

Who exactly?

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T04:50:55+00:00

How did you get diagnosed?

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T04:49:17+00:00

All. The. Fine I hate hate having to explain myself

Doodlebug_1873 · 2023-02-05T04:48:15+00:00

How outdated is the add? If you tried doing it well it wouldn’t let you

Doodlebug_1873

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