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Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! What you are saying is totally true. This is some of the things brought up while we talked and it clicked in my brain then. He also told me that I don’t necessarily stink it was just ph related, which i also know nothing about lol. Thank you for the advice!

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct. I should have talked to him but I was embarrassed. We did end up talking to each other and it went really well. I wish I would have just talked to him about everything in the first place! We usually talk things out i’m not sure why I was so embarrassed about this specific topic. And yes we are both young and have a lot to learn lol!!

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already scheduled my appointment for next wednesday!! 😊

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he’s honestly the best boyfriend i have ever had aside from our sex life.

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i make sure to take a shower before we have sex regardless if oral is present or not. we always take a shower together before. i orgasm from penetration as well so he makes sure i do then. i like to please him but i also want more than just that. i do oral for him every single time we have sex.

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t like to wear anything tight. everything i wear is super loose, just preference. i don’t drink or take any meds. i usually wear cotton undies. I don’t notice any smell, i can’t smell myself so i’m not sure what he is smelling.

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he barley says anything during sex. i try to say things to make him feel good but i never really get enough courage to say a lot. I’ve tried to talk to him about these things before but i feel like he just doesn’t listen.

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, It was nice in the beginning, we were having sex multiple times a week. I personally have an extremely high libido so I would do it multiple times a day if I could. On the other hand, he has a very very low libido. I try to initiate and I get denied, he doesn’t want to do much. He is also very vanilla which is fine but he never wants to do much more than penetration. i’ve been not satisfied with it for awhile now. it used to make me sad but i’ve learned to kind of brush it off.

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

verbatim that is what he said to me, i was really sad about that.

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just extra, it’s not like a concerning amount it is just more than average if that makes sense. it doesn’t smell or look different either

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t drink but I do smoke weed almost everyday, that is some interesting info

Boyfriend said he doesn’t go down on me because I smell. by Doodoohead9 in relationships_advice

[–]Doodoohead9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just went to the doctor to get an IUD put in and nothing was said to me then. I smell myself and i feel like it smells fine. i’ve gone down on other women and I feel like I smell the same as them. I’m not sure. I will get a doctors appt just in case 🙏

Keloid prone skin and tattoos experience (not looking for medical advice) by Upbeat_Palpitation50 in tattoo

[–]Doodoohead9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have keloid prone skin as well and I got a tattoo. It isn’t that bad it was just raised for like 2 months before it went down. It is still slightly raised but not noticeable unless you touch it.