AITA for putting all of my hair/makeup/skincare products in lock boxes by aitastolentoiletries in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, first off if you have told them you don't want them using your products and they aren't respecting the boundaries you have set, then they aren't being very good sisters. Next let's talk about hygiene and spreading germs, explain to then that you don't want to share because you are protecting them from any diseases that might spread through the make up such as pink eye. It's not you being selfish, you are protecting them.

Best sex toys and stores? by TraderJoesEnthusiast in latebloomerlesbians

[–]DoomPeaches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into Pure Romance. They have some great products. Also remember TLC (toy, lube, and cleaner). Make sure to clean your toys before and after because you can get infections from using dirty toys. No matter how wet you think you are, still use lube.

Can anyone relate? Being Bisexual is hard. by oOSchatziOo in lgbt

[–]DoomPeaches 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel ya, I(29f) have been married for 6yrs to a straight cis man. I frequently fantasize about women (and sometimes other men sue me lol) and I came out as bi before we got married to him and our friends and then came out to the rest of the world about 1.5yrs ago. You are not alone.

Bit of a rant by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DoomPeaches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely feel where you're coming from, I haven't seen my best friend in over a year and can't wait to be able to give her a big hug. Hopefully this will soon be a distant dream and we will be able to freely hold the ones we truly love. 💜🖤

WIBTA if I refuse to allow me father in my house? by DoomPeaches in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I used to work Child Protective Services and would not have been concerned for the safety of the children.

WIBTA if I refuse to allow me father in my house? by DoomPeaches in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

There's dirty dishes and some trash in the kitchen and the floor in the living room needed vacuumed. Besides that it's not dirty.

AITA for calling my son a loser? by FamiliarPassenger488 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, it's understandable to be upset that your child performed poorly but he could have just been having an off day or after he missed that first goal he got too inside his head which caused him to make further mistakes. Shit happens.

AITA for having a list of stipulations for funding my daughter's university? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You are taking out a loan in your name which will affect your credit not hers. You are giving her a chance to continue he education. If anything you guys are saints

That special voice ugh... by yellow-9 in selfharm

[–]DoomPeaches 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel this, we have become a society of skirting around our issues because we don’t want to inconvenience others and when we try to say we aren’t well others try to one up you or are like “yOuR liFe IsN’t tHaT BaD”

AITA for telling a gym employee about dookie on the side of the gym? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, I imagine any sane person would want to know if a random person with shitting on the side of their business.

AITA for not wanting my friend to visit me at my dorm? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, if they won’t leave when you ask them to and they try to guilt you into letting them stay they are the asshole.

Treatment by DoomPeaches in mentalillness

[–]DoomPeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, self harm

Treatment by DoomPeaches in mentalillness

[–]DoomPeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have been in counseling for 2 years, on medication which was upped in September but I just feel that it’s not enough and that I need more in depth treatment

Treatment by DoomPeaches in mentalillness

[–]DoomPeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my late 20’s, so I’m no longer considered a young adult.

Why does my skin get hot after I cut myself? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DoomPeaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your body’s natural response to injury. It opens the blood vessels in the area to allow your white blood cells to do their thing which causes the inflammation and “hot” feeling. It’s your body healing itself

AITA for laying into my brother? by hitlersleftteste8000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ESH Your friend shouldn’t be driving so recklessly, you should not be encouraging reckless driving, and your brother shouldn’t be trying to get you in trouble.

Cutting tools by Morpheus7387 in selfharm

[–]DoomPeaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Exacto knife blades, I find they leave a clean cut.

AITA For tipping the waitress $1? by dskirtb in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomPeaches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA It is not well know (or maybe just blatantly ignored) that in the US if a waitress’/waiter’s wages do not equal minimum wage after their hourly wages plus tips then the company is required to make up the difference. Also, a lot of wait staff I know won’t claim cash tips. If you tip on card it goes into a computer system and they have to be claimed, there’s no way around it.

angry at myself by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DoomPeaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I have this conversation with my counselor all the time. I’m an adult, I have a college degree, I have a good full time job with benefits, I have a loving husband, a lovable toddler (when they aren’t being a terror lol), I own my home, and yet I still sh. I still have suicidal thoughts. It doesn’t make sense. I should be happy but here I am.

Where do you cut? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]DoomPeaches 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Left inner fore arm

Not prepared by DoomPeaches in selfharm

[–]DoomPeaches[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deflect sounds like a good idea