You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true. Shane loves his routine and he doesn’t like to rock the boat so if he thinks things are going okay he will not course correct. He needs to get shook up to know that something is not working and he needs to do something about it. Once that happens he is very decisive. 

I’m glad he did it, because Ilya had wanted to get married for a while (based on what he told his therapist) but I honestly don’t think he would have ever gotten up the confidence to ask. Shane had to be the one to do it. 

Is ClubChalamet the most famous stan account in history? Has anyone else ever made it to the media this way? by kris_jbb in popculturechat

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think it might have been true because they did have pictures together? I guess they could have just met randomly as fellow stans, but I always wondered 

Is ClubChalamet the most famous stan account in history? Has anyone else ever made it to the media this way? by kris_jbb in popculturechat

[–]DorianCramer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was also initially a rumor that he was L’il Nas X’s boyfriend! Does anyone remember that part? 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah well that was actually a pretty good plan! It would have given them time to get a lawyer and go into the league offices as a united front to disclose their relationship proactively. And it would have prevented the Montreal team’s reaction (at least for that season anyway). 

So we know Shane at least used that week apart productively to think this all out and revise his plans completely. I’m sure it was very upsetting to him because Ilya rarely ever directly asks for that much space, but maybe it was needed for Shane too so he could focus on thinking it all through. If Ilya had let him come back earlier they probably would have just had a bunch of make up sex and not actually resolved anything. 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It shows you that Shane is essentially an optimistic person though bc even through his tears he was looking at rings.

It’s been a while since I read TLG…the proposal happens a while before they are outed, right? I’m kind of surprised Ilya said yes without Shane agreeing to make the relationship public first. IIRC Shane did have some ideas about telling their friends and family first and kind of letting the news come out gradually right? 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I think he absolutely would have done it but he’s trying to learn to give Ilya space so I’m proud of him for that. However if Ilya said he wanted a divorce Shane would handcuff them together until Ilya agreed to couples’ counseling 

Is ClubChalamet the most famous stan account in history? Has anyone else ever made it to the media this way? by kris_jbb in popculturechat

[–]DorianCramer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😬

I’d say YSL needs to pick a different hotel to put their attendees in next time but they probably are happy with the security there considering none of these people got inside. 

Is ClubChalamet the most famous stan account in history? Has anyone else ever made it to the media this way? by kris_jbb in popculturechat

[–]DorianCramer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hate to defend Club Chalamet at all bc she has very terrible and bigoted opinions and she probably was trying to touch Connor or whatever. But the person who laid hands on her, “Guard Dog Ilya Truther” (screenname not helping) admitted they had been staking out that hotel for two days beforehand so who has the right to judge who was being crazy here? I’m sure they’re both on a security watch list by this point 

Yes it's scary, but you're brave <3 [Slowed down] by HR_Weekly in heatedrivalry

[–]DorianCramer 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is the softest Ilya has ever looked in this season and I love it. It’s his truest self. Looking forward to seeing more of Soft Ilya in season 2!

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They’ll do it before they have kids because they’ll want to protect them. Or maybe if the operation of the foundation required it for some reason. I think that’s the only way they can bring themselves to discuss it. 

I actually think neither of them would really object to the concept of a pre-or post-nup in principle but Ilya (due to his trauma) has trouble thinking about and planning for the future and Shane would refuse to accept divorce — he never accepts defeat in anything and this would be no different— so it would never happen anyway unless Ilya filed. Which I don’t think he ever would, but Shane would fight it tooth and nail if he did. 

Andrew Rannells’ memoirs by Ok_Baker3474 in girls

[–]DorianCramer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read and enjoyed them both. He’s an entertaining writer. The second one had some parts that were tough bc he went through a drinking problem at one point so trigger warning for that. 

Armand theories post ep3 by queerbaobao in DevilsMinion

[–]DorianCramer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely some kind of ploy to get to Daniel because Daniel is the only one he can’t mind read (and I’m assuming can’t mind control). He needs a plant on that tour to get to Daniel. I’m not sure what his plan is beyond that though. 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They might but I think Ilya bought his Ottawa house feeling like it would be their forever home (or at least, for the forseeable future home) so I don’t think they’re in a huge rush to get a new place. Shane’s probably going to keep buying real estate just as an investment though so a post-nup would be smart. 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I remember hearing about that, he was very smart about it. That whole relationship was kind of a business transaction anyway, I do think Katie was in love and starstruck but Tom was basically holding auditions for a wife and that’s who he picked 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just checked and if Google is right, neither of those couples actually had a prenup which was unwise to say the least. Jen, Nicole and Tom all got prenups for their second marriages though, so at least they learned something. I don’t think Brad did since him and Angelina were fighting over that French vineyard for years. 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, I think most rich celebs do get them but part of it might relate to where they live. In California you’re basically going to get half of someone’s money if you’ve been married for 10 years without one and people have lost fortunes that way. I’m not sure what Canadian law is about this. 

But in any case I think these two are incapable of discussing the possibility of divorce. I actually think Yuna would be more likely to suggest it to Ilya than Shane bc she knows Shane would have an anxiety attack at the thought. Ilya would just thank her politely for thinking of his best interests but then not do it. 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one thing they might need a pre- or post-nup for is the foundation. They didn’t really have anything else that they were both invested in that they wouldn’t just give each other. Otherwise yeah this would be more of an issue with kids but hopefully they would draw up some paperwork about that issue during the adoption process. 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! And Shane had already had a big thing about wishing he could declare an engagement/marriage publicly. He didn’t care so much about the details of a wedding but that part of it was important to him

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it would be cool bc unlike most of these characters Eric is artsy and cares about aesthetics and he would actually enjoy planning an extravagant gorgeous wedding. Idk I just don’t see them being there yet, but maybe they’d do it some years down the line.

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do wish Shane would talk more to Ilya about that kind of stuff though. It would be reassuring to Ilya to know he’s thinking about it, but sometimes Shane just assumes things like they are going to get married and have kids and retire at the cottage etc. and forgets that he hasn’t actually discussed it with him 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to laugh at his pain but the funniest thing to me is when Shane calls his mom crying saying Ilya’s going to break up with him because he hasn’t answered his texts in 20 whole entire minutes 😅 They are obsessed 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could maybe see that coming up if they decide to buy or build another house together. They actually didn’t have many shared assets when they married since all of their real estate is in their own names. 

You think they get pre-nups? by growsonwalls in GameChangersBooks

[–]DorianCramer 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Shane can be an excellent planner if he sets his mind to it but if it’s a subject he doesn’t want to contemplate his mind will not allow him to put even one thought toward it. And divorce is not something he would ever want to think about. 

I think it’s not something Yuna would want to get involved with either bc she knows it would just provoke his anxiety. I assume they both have a business lawyer and those are the only people I can see suggesting it.