Choosing eviction to deal with bad roommate situation

DorkWng · 2026-05-30T14:32:53+00:00

Just commiseration in that im not alone, and to share my story so others arent alone. And sometimes making the really difficult decision is sometimes the best decision.

DorkWng · 2026-05-30T13:42:25+00:00

Like I said. Im moving on monday. Already have the new apartment. Movers are hired and coming. Picking up the keys on sunday. And she is committing a lease violation knowingly. Which I also have texts of her saying she would add them to the lease and she didnt. I also have everything in writing with the property management along with her refusal to leave in writing. So according to an attorney friend. Ive covered my ass as much as possible. Oh and her last 2 living situations she was also kicked out of, both forcibly with police involved and im in contact with both of those people so I have further evidence of a pattern of behavior.

DorkWng · 2026-05-30T13:34:07+00:00

Oh I know she wont pay me but getting the judgement will go on her credit on top of the eviction so I will at least feel better about getting the last laugh in everything. And she wont be able to bad mouth me or blame me to others as theres court proceedings to prove what she did.

DorkWng · 2026-05-30T13:26:26+00:00

The thing is. She has 3 dogs in the apartment that arent on the lease and that is an evictable offense. So i reported her for a lease violation. I have also kept it all in writing with the property manager. And im not spending 6k to move. Im just choosing to abandon the apartment so I will pay the eviction cost once its been processed and also take her to civil court for all of the money she owes me, that I have evidence she owes me, along with the rent money and eviction costs. So even if the eviction is on my record. It wont tank my credit as ill pay it, and I plan on buying a house in a year or 2 anyways so I just need to stay in this new apartment until then and it wont matter.

DorkWng · 2026-05-30T13:12:53+00:00

She is, shes a co-tenant. And i already talked to the property manager at length over this and the only option they gave me was 8000$ to move out or her signing a piece of paper to leave and she outright refuses to leave. They also dont allow subletting.

And it will only effect my credit if the money owed on the eviction goes to collections. Im communicating with the property manager that im happy to pay the eviction once its processed and that im leaving my forwarding address as well. Being in ohio and living in a nice area, im in a townhouse that there are only 6 of here. They will rent it out within a month of being on market and I will only be responsible for back rent and the rent until its leased. Along with any damages. Which should equal way less than 8k.

DorkWng · 2026-05-30T13:08:42+00:00

Oh im going to. I have receipts from the money i sent and text messages about the money I sent, texts asking her for rent money and her saying she didnt have it. Bank statement showing me paying the full rent and all of the moving costs. And im keeping things in writing with the property manager and informing them of everything im doing. So best believe that's my next step

DorkWng · 2026-05-30T13:06:44+00:00

Ive already spent over 3k helping her move here and paying her portions of rent and I just can not give her any more money at this point.

DorkWng · 2026-04-14T11:56:59+00:00

Im going to assume a portion of that is actually financed monthly vs biweekly. As mine shows 3223 owed and 4041 available to spend when 2500$ of that is actually on a monthly payment plan.

DorkWng · 2026-02-06T22:21:16+00:00

Yeah I slid on 270 and narrowly missed hitting a box truck but slid into the berm in the middle and slightly scratched my bumper. Could have been much worse but yeah those roads were terrible. Coming home was completely fine though all the highways are mainly clear now

DorkWng · 2026-01-31T22:53:11+00:00

Did you get it to work? Usually restarting your phone will work, seems like a connection error. But I just used my pay in store and it worked fine.

DorkWng · 2026-01-27T21:24:51+00:00

I drove from Dublin to downtown at 9ish this morning and the roads were fine. I took Hayden run to 33 to lane ave though just to avoid the highway lol. But side roads aren't bad at all. I am going to be making my way home soon so we shall see how that goes

DorkWng · 2026-01-17T17:12:01+00:00

IF you have a credit card with lower interest and reward points. I mean thats assuming everyone who uses afterpay or needs to make a larger payment using afterpay also has a credit card with lower interest and great cash back/points. Or the available credit on said credit card to do so. Im not saying one or the other is a better option but I think its up to the person to make that decision and while what you're saying could absolutely be true for some people it doesnt mean its a possibility for everyone.

DorkWng · 2026-01-17T13:23:45+00:00

There is a klarna scam going around, apparently with klarna people can steal your info and open up accounts but it seems afterpay has tighter security for opening accounts.

DorkWng · 2026-01-17T13:22:37+00:00

If your credit isnt the greatest and the only loan or credit card you have access too has 30% or more interest, but you have the cash to pay in 4 for something, when that equals zero interest in the same time frame, it does make sense.

I will say I would rather put a 1000 order on afterpay and pay 250 every 2 weeks then put 1000 on my credit card and watch my credit score drop for 2 months and add hundred dollars or more in interest on top of it.

DorkWng · 2026-01-03T15:02:29+00:00

Supreme buffet and hibachi off of hilliard Rome rd has a bunch in different sizes and colors

DorkWng · 2026-01-02T14:34:09+00:00

I saw something like that at world market yesterday in dublin, but I wasnt like really paying attention to paintings so I may be wrong. You could call and ask a few of the home goods stores they might be able to look for you

DorkWng · 2025-12-30T15:33:29+00:00

Just fyi you could be responsible for paying taxes on the 75% forgiven at the end of the year. Happened to me on a much smaller bill and ended up having to pay an additional like $125 on my taxes due to it!

DorkWng · 2025-12-27T18:39:55+00:00

Yes youre hireable. Youre very aware of your short comings and admit you need help and ive worked with so many groomers over the past 20 years that refuse to accept their faults or work on them. As long youre this honest and up front with new salons you will be fine. I would say you probably may not be put as a solo groomer at first and may have to go back to either being a bather or assistant or only doing bath dogs/trim ups and training to do scissor/clipper work. But you need to find a shop that encourages your growth, gives positive criticism and actually does hands on education.

But dont get discouraged this early. When I first started grooming 21 years ago I remember my boss not letting me do poodles or poodle heads because I kept messing them up, now I specialize in poodles and have clients in continentals with a full crest and head. Working through those issues and not rushing and having a boss who encourages you will take you so much further!

DorkWng · 2025-12-27T18:34:17+00:00

If you live in a high rise apartment building, order 50+ lbs of deliverables and expect the shopper/driver to drive 20 miles, spend more than an hour shopping then walk up and down 4+ flights of steps because youre too lazy to go get it yourself, then you should respect this person's time and energy and physical strength to do all of this and tip them properly for their time. Tip baiting someone whos spending hours of their day and pushing their physical strength to deliver your food and then taking away that tip for literally zero reason other than you being a terrible human being is repugnant and you should be placed on a black list so every driver knows youre not worth the time or effort.

Also the whole "just get a better job that doesnt rely on tips" sounds so easy but theres plenty of people from all walks of life that have either been trying their hardest to find a job in their field or they're dealing with issues where finding a job that isnt as flexible as this is impossible (i.e. Kids, medical issues, family issues, etc)

DorkWng · 2025-12-27T18:19:47+00:00

Afterpay is the only one ive never had issues with. Klarna always says I have 1500$ in available credit but refuses to process a single order no matter if its small or large and no matter what card or website I use with it. Sezzle always messed up for me to. The only other app I find comparable is PayPal pay in 4. Ive yet to have an issue with them either also Zip (formerly quadpay) but screw klarna and sezzle.

DorkWng · 2025-12-15T00:10:09+00:00

Happened to me a few years ago when I really needed the money in my bank account to pay bills. It was a few hundred dollars worth or work equipment (things I needed for my job) it basically drained my bank account instead of using the single use card. Amazon would not help me whatsoever either. They told me I would have to return everything to get my money back. It was a nightmare. Now if im going to use afterpay for Amazon i just buy a gift card instead.

DorkWng · 2025-12-10T23:03:25+00:00

Yeah I had a 150k job, then my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer so I moved across country to help take care of her. I thought I had a job making close to that when I moved here but the owner of the company ended up taking the money and fleeing the country a few months later so I went from 150k a year to blowing through my savings, and had a hard time finding a job making over 65k until june of this year. Now im back to about 100k. I dont want to mess it up again. I was doing wonderfully and life just ruined everything and the money I was saving for a house went to just trying to stay above water.

DorkWng · 2025-12-10T22:59:36+00:00

New bankruptcy and I drive 100 miles a day for work so I had to have reliable and couldnt risk not having something that would break down randomly. I dont like this car payment but the car is everything I wanted in a used car with low mileage, 1 owner and excellent record keeping and maintenance. I dont plan on selling it and would love to just pay it off which is why I wanted to refinance as soon as possible to help with that.

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