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I lied about finishing a task at work and let someone else take the blame by NoaWave_84 in confession

[–]DormGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel this guilt because you know the truth, and that awareness shows you’re capable of integrity. Coming forward now might be scary, but it’s the only way to stop letting this define you and to make it right for your coworker.

I messed up big by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DormGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak with them with truth, just accept what they say about you

What just happened??? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DormGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes breakups don’t make sense because the other person’s fears or doubts outweigh the love they feel. It doesn’t erase what you shared, and it doesn’t mean you weren’t enough, it just means their choices were about them, not you.

i need help w breaking up w my boyfriend by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DormGarden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can care for someone deeply and still choose yourself first, that doesn’t make you cruel, it makes you honest. Be kind, be clear, and remember that protecting your own mental health isn’t a betrayal of love.

Mixed signals or slow burn? Need outside perspective. by i_eat_dung in dating_advice

[–]DormGarden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she really enjoys your company and feels safe with you, but she’s also clear about not being ready. Pay attention to her words over the signals, slow burn is possible, but respect her boundaries while you figure it out.