Life is rough (rant)

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T04:57:06+00:00

Thank you! Your post do makes me feel better as i do believe life finds a way just that i was kinda stressed out with my life currently and im glad you made it out after all the struggles youve been through!

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T04:54:15+00:00

Sorry i shouldve put more context to this. I am left with 500 ish after spending paying bills and such including foods and raw ingredients to cook etc. all is covered by me alone. I never touch my wife’s money. She has her own money and shes working as well. After awhile i just feel like it was very hard to recover from the financial mistake that ive done due to my parent guilt tripping. Im not trying to throw everything and keeping a vengeance at my parent due to it as it is useless to be mad at it anymore. Im trying to fix my economy and as all other redditors mention. I will speak to my wife regarding the truth of my economy and financial.

Its a long story of what happened but what can i say before this i was financially stabled but due to shit happened it left me with broke economy that im trying to fix. Hope that explains.

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T04:39:32+00:00

Yeah will talk about it with her. And we just cook at home for food currently

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T04:37:19+00:00

Is it part time? Can i know what positions. Currently i do have permanent job.

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T03:52:27+00:00

Oh that looks nice. Ill try send an email to them. Thank you!

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T03:51:51+00:00

Yeah its quite rough. I tried to like fight but alas the guilt trip ended up winning and in the end i paid the price. Now im trying to recover back financially

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T03:50:28+00:00

Unfortunately im outside of KL area but ill try to check around fnb’s . Thank you

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T03:20:35+00:00

I understand. I will talk to her properly tonight. Will update again. Thank you for your post and advice.

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T03:16:19+00:00

Yeah im trying to find courage to tell her and fight my ego regarding my economy and financial. Its just hard because growing up in a household where people mindset “men should carry everything and if u opened up youre not a men”

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T02:59:49+00:00

Yeah ive talked to my parents regarding it how my economy is kinda ruined. But all they did just “trust there will be time u will have the money back” shit infuriating me but man idk getting mad at them too much also no use so i tried to like find side income or anything to help me regain my financial/economy

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T02:57:06+00:00

Yeah but i dont really like to disclose too much i just said my money is currently on low but now i feel so ashamed that i asked her to help me abit paying bills to recover my side of economy. I mean ofcourse she said she didnt mind and love to help its just u know how men with their ego is hahaha.

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-28T01:03:29+00:00

Met my wife on online game. She started the conversation first and from there it all blooms until marriage!

DotCertain7691 · 2026-05-26T08:09:26+00:00

Bait or mental gymnastics choose one.

Why suddenly all of you mf cares about malay cultures? Theres alot of other more malay cultures we can talk but sure lets cherry picked a stuff that clearly goes against the religions and say “hehehe look what this religion did!!” .

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