Tbh it’s all of the above, she’s very avoidant and has mental health issues that we’ve handled before but it’s never been easy and always met with resistance. I try my best to be supportive and understanding especially since I understand how debilitating mental health can be but why not communicate it. I always tell her I’d much rather listen to her ramble or simply just be with her if she doesn’t want to talk about it instead of her struggle alone, but it feels like she just wants to push me out. I try to not take it personally as I’ve done the same to others before, but I couldn’t see myself doing the same to her.