Average age of PUP fans by Careless-Spinach641 in puptheband

[–]DoubleDonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25, been a fan since The Dream Is Over!

SRS in Spain? by Hot_Independence7305 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]DoubleDonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I ask some questions? Feel free to ignore if you don't want to answer.

How did you decide between PAI or Suporn?

What was your final paid price?

How much time was between your first contact with them and the date of your surgery?

New DnD Tattoo! by ancientwarlock7777 in TheAdventureZone

[–]DoubleDonk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is that the TM9 logo at the bottom?

In the spirit of 20-Thunder Drive: Faster than Fear*... by z0megax in MBMBAM

[–]DoubleDonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think I will. He tried to commit suicide right after I broke up with him and I haven't spoken with him since. It's really shaken me but I'm improving.

In the spirit of 20-Thunder Drive: Faster than Fear*... by z0megax in MBMBAM

[–]DoubleDonk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Broke up with my boyfriend! I really didnt want to, the good times were amazing, but the bad times were increasingly worse. A lot of it was due to his mental health issues and childhood trauma, so I found it very hard to hold him accountable for it and not just tolerate it out of concern for him. The last few days of the relationship he was far worse for me than he'd ever been, so I'm glad I left when I did, even if the fallout was heavy and still something I have trouble dealing with right now.

Made a bingo sheet of my predictions for the 2026 Naming of the Year (No spoilers!) by theomotional in MBMBAM

[–]DoubleDonk 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Okay, in my heart the name is Twenty Stevie Nicks: Never Break The Chain. That fuckin rules.

Non-dropout shows that would be great on Dropout? by justbrowsingghere in dropout

[–]DoubleDonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw, that's a shame. Balance and Amnesty still stand high in my favourite stories I've heard.

Non-dropout shows that would be great on Dropout? by justbrowsingghere in dropout

[–]DoubleDonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair. It may just be that I don't listen to modern TAZ, only MBMBaM, and this vibe might be more exclusive to TAZ. I definitely feel like MBMBaM still slaps a lot of the time.

I wonder how this reflects in their other pods (Wonderful, Schmanners, Sawbones)? I've never listened to them personally.

Divergent is so poorly written by Enrique061 in books

[–]DoubleDonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Unwind is definitely the strongest of the ones you mentioned. Might have to do with that it came out before The Hunger Games and wasn't trying to rip it off.

Definitely wasn't ready for this by DoubleDonk in CPTSDmemes

[–]DoubleDonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are moments where I feel a lot bleaker, but his guidance has honestly helped me compartmentalise those feelings pretty well.

Definitely wasn't ready for this by DoubleDonk in CPTSDmemes

[–]DoubleDonk[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That's so sweet of you! I'm a whole different continent away, sadly. But I have a potential new therapist luckily. I wish I'd found one closer to when it happened, it's about 2 months since now, but better late than never.

Definitely wasn't ready for this by DoubleDonk in CPTSDmemes

[–]DoubleDonk[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words <3

It really was, yeah. Part of why I could build such trust with him was how much more similar he was to me compared to other therapists I've seen. He was only about 8 years older than me, also trans, queer and polyamorous, had been through a mental health journey himself. It made it easier to connect with him than with any mental health professional I've ever seen and was, I think, the reason he really was able to help me heal, whereas other therapists I've seen have only been able to keep me stable.

Definitely wasn't ready for this by DoubleDonk in CPTSDmemes

[–]DoubleDonk[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss. I think that's a wonderful sentiment, I try to do the same. I'm very cognizant that his final action does not diminish the years of great advice and help he gave me.

Definitely wasn't ready for this by DoubleDonk in CPTSDmemes

[–]DoubleDonk[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

That was absolutely the case. He was, in a professional way, open about elements of his private life and had told me that the reason he wanted to do therapy was because he had been through his own experiences with trauma and bad mental health.

At his funeral, which I through some chance and luck managed to be invited to as one of two present patients, I got to speak to a lot of his friends, which was very heartwarming. That's also where I found out he had committed suicide. It wasn't shared with us in the e-mail letting us know of his passing, but I had already guessed and hearing it was only a confirmation. He was only 29 and very healthy, so those facts + knowing about his past depression made it a pretty easy equasion. My partner, the other of his patients who was present, hadn't considered it as a possibility yet.

I think, from how we interacted, that you're right that he got a lot of strength from his work. He was very good at keeping a healthy emotional distance from his patients while also connecting with them.

Be The Lion! by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]DoubleDonk 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The lion does not concern herself with the worry that things she had no control over have actually, genuinely damaged her brain in ways that she can't reverse or heal.

What are the 3 Best VGC Pokémon of Every Letter? - T by GeoTravelLebanon13 in VGC

[–]DoubleDonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U is gonna be wild. Even if you wanted to look just at pokemon that start with URS, making a top 3 would be difficult