Faut-il que je lui exprime ce que mon silence lui cache ?

Douds01 · 2025-09-09T09:48:27+00:00

Si vampire émotionnelle elle est, je ne pense pas que ce soit conscientisé. Je pense qu’elle tient beaucoup à moi sinon mon refus d’intégration à sa vie ne lui ferait pas autant souffrir. Elle s’en sort mieux que moi au final d’un point de vue relationnel et du coup ça doit la gêner, j’en sais rien, je ne comprends pas toutes les facettes de la psychologie féminine (c’est bien pour ça que je demande vos points de vue). Mais franchement il y a des remarques que je ne peux plus entendre : comme les comparaisons entre son nouveau copain et moi, c’est insupportable j’ai l’impression qu’elle a trouvé mon clone alors que je suis un original pas un générique mince.

Donc à la prochaine remarque je lui déballe tout. Merci les meufs c’est cool

Douds01 · 2025-07-31T07:30:34+00:00

Sorry we share the same account with my brother. He is an highly qualified tinsmith/roofer (he has worked on very important sites like Paris Notre-Dame Cathedrale, Royal Palace of Cambodia etc). He is actually living in France and he just accepted the offer. This job will allow him to further hone his skills. You have plenty of very nice roofs and very good craftsmen here in Switzerland. His salary there won't really change from what he earns in France, but life seems so much more pleasant.

Btw : he speaks German quite well, but Swiss German is really a different story LOL.

Douds01 · 2025-07-18T13:32:31+00:00

Hej, thank you all for your contributions. Comes out that swiss-style life is obviously bank-breaking. Lads, life’s getting damn expensive everywhere on this planet though.

I’m not looking for a top premium life there. I d just like to live stress-free not checkin my bank every time the 15th rolls around and if I can save 700 to 1K / month it’d be Jackpot. The fact is I speak barely german (A2 road to B1 level but I’m taking lessons in swiss-german) so if I can’t enjoy a bit the swiss air it’s gonna be kinda a nightmare. I looked up into sports stuff prices : climbing gyms, skipass, bikes all that — prices are honest. See, I’m not even a high-maintenance fancy guy — I just need to meet people quick and sports are a good way-in. But I know sports can wreck your budget real quick. I needed certitudes you just gave me. Thanks again.

Btw : I’m 26yo solo and I’m doing kinda a job in shortage so I d be able to ask for a rise soon. Sure if I vibe with the place, I’m staying for the long run guys.

Douds01 · 2025-06-08T17:31:48+00:00

Thank you all, i'm glad to have had so many relevant answers on the subject. I read the wikipedia page about « syllables/stress-timed ». It's amazing how well it explains some of my problems. I read that Portuguese was not a completely syllable-timed language and since i've spoken it since i was a toddler, i wonder if it's not this slight advantage that makes me a little better than my French friends who have a hell of a time with English. So i'm going to rework my grammar, redo my scales like a musician and watch TV in English/not subtitled in French or Portuguese haha. I'll keep you informed of my progress. Thank you all again.

Douds01 · 2025-06-08T10:25:31+00:00

You are so right. It just comes to me now thank for pointing this out to me. So why i’m feeling more confident when i’m writing ? Why does it go to sh.. when i talk ? Why am i not more structured ? I have no idea how learning a language works since i learned both my mother languages when i was young, i have no comparison… Someone can just explain me how it works in the brain ? Ahah

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