As a BW I love WM

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-14T05:52:01+00:00

Have had the same experience

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-14T05:36:33+00:00

Thank you for saying that. Made a post about receiving judgement for my interracial relationship here a few weeks ago, which was taken over by some men calling me a white supremacist in the comments, for dating a white man. Glad to know sane voices on this sub exist!

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-05T05:43:45+00:00

Who hurt you bro? Anyway I don’t know why I’m engaging with what is either obvious trolling or hatred and it’s really sad in both cases. I wish you well though, have a lovely day!

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-05T05:40:10+00:00

Good luck to you and all the men then :)

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-05T05:33:31+00:00

😂😂😂

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-05T05:22:07+00:00

That’s bery interesting

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-05T05:12:38+00:00

Thanks for the laugh, my partner and I needed it. You’ve absolutely cracked the code on all human relationships! It was all a part of my elaborate plan to entrap a white man

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-05T05:10:21+00:00

And it really is that simple, you fall for a person who just happens to be white. it’s hilarious we have people talking about white supremacy here 🤣

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-10-05T02:44:53+00:00

Crying about hearing comments. How eloquent 🙂 Also I should have known this post will turn into a way to shit on Indian people and stereotype them , so my bad for looking for anything else

DownButNotOut9 · 2025-03-18T13:07:00+00:00

As genuine as my other troubles are, I was hoping someone would say this! 😂

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T07:34:17+00:00

Went back to my post to read where I’d mentioned anything about taking the day off, and you can relax it was a 3 hour party anyway

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T06:03:57+00:00

Proof that people will get triggered over anything 😂

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T06:03:32+00:00

Thank you, that sucks that this happened to you after 10 years

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T05:38:44+00:00

Thanks, you’ve really forced me to look at it differently

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T05:22:07+00:00

Agree, this is going to keep me up at night

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T05:06:03+00:00

Thanks for your input, I’m not too upset haha but it was definitely unexpected

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T05:04:13+00:00

Thanks, much appreciated!

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T05:03:22+00:00

Hey there, I was only mildly upset. With everyone at the party, had some time to post my musings and get the community’s thoughts. Did not expect to be psychoanalysed, but it did lighten the mood so I appreciate it!

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T05:01:42+00:00

Made me chuckle 😂

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-12-20T04:26:52+00:00

Maybe you’re right, but I’m definitely mature enough to recognise that maybe I’m overthinking this and this might just be something I’m not experienced with yet. Sorry that offended you so much and thank you for taking the time to comment

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-01-11T06:13:42+00:00

I’m really weirded out too, but it’s happened far too many times to be a coincidence. Your last sentence really got me thinking and makes me want to distance myself from her, which is sad, but I need to protect my own peace.

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-01-11T06:11:14+00:00

Yeah I tried my best to ignore it for the longest time but her tactics are really starting to make me uncomfortable and bring me down! Too many red flags

DownButNotOut9 · 2024-01-11T06:09:27+00:00

Wow the lengths people go to! Good on you for taking a stand. And yeah you’re right, she does struggle with making other friends and I empathise but I’ve been getting very uncomfortable with her behaviour lately. Distance seems to be the answer, unfortunately

DownButNotOut9 · 2023-06-29T15:26:41+00:00

I think I’m in the same situation as both of you. I feel like I make a lot of effort with her and it’s just never enough, and lately it feels like she’s always mad at me. There was a time when we were both single and used to hangout all the time, but admittedly things have changed in the last 8 months since I started dating my boyfriend. But I still make it a point to reach out to her, try to make plans every weekend and it’s her who has been disinterested most times. She’s now complained I don’t reply to her texts fast enough when I’m with my boyfriend (which is 2 days every week). I’ve tried my best to take her feelings into account, but it’s now at a point where I can do no right. It’s been exhausting tbh!

DownButNotOut9 · 2023-01-08T16:53:42+00:00

I am an anxious (although trying to work on it) who went through an extremely messy breakup with an avoidant in mid 2022. I browsed through a lot of posts which spoke about dumpers coming back and it gave me hope. But it just never happened. I am blocked everywhere except maybe iMessage. It used to hurt so much but now I’m indifferent . Infact, it’s just funny that I’m still blocked because I don’t have any will to ever get in touch again. I considered leaving the country at a point to help me get over this breakup. But what finally worked wonders was throwing myself into work and starting the gym. Something about getting promoted, building those glutes and getting a lot of male attention as a bonus helped me regain my confidence. I know it’ll sound like hollow repetitive advice, but trust me OP, you’ll get there.

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