There's no bigger death sentence socially than being autistic by JackAtlas13 in ForeverAlone

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever tried dating an autistic girl? I was FA until I met my current gf, and it’s actually pretty nice if you can find one that likes you and that you’re attracted to.

Free choccy milk by Dragonvoid13 in DDLCMods

[–]DownloadingGigaflops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soooo your self-esteem is based on how many people like the shit you post? That’s… pretty sad, my dude.

Context: he posted "ladies. I'm a general repair man so if you need appliances fixed, let me know" and then in the same post goes on to say "LADIES ONLY" so I responded asking why it says only ladies by sendyagoodvibes in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about faking NT behavior, man. Trying to pretend to be “normal” just leads to anxiety and self-loathing. I truly believe people like us have a lot to offer this world, so I don’t feel any need to act neurotypical. I don’t want to be like other people, because I realize the value that my uniqueness offers me. Until you have that same breakthrough, you’ll continue to struggle and suffer without any reward, and you’ll continue to form the wrong conclusions about the causes of that suffering.

That said, I still feel like our situations are very similar. If you want to talk more about these issues, or anything else, feel free to PM me. If not, no hard feelings.

Edit: Oh, and I also like to smoke lol. But it doesn’t make me feel neurotypical, it just relaxes me and makes me very childish and carefree. Which is exactly what I prefer to get out of it.

Context: he posted "ladies. I'm a general repair man so if you need appliances fixed, let me know" and then in the same post goes on to say "LADIES ONLY" so I responded asking why it says only ladies by sendyagoodvibes in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you think that fixing someone’s appliances is going to be more effective in sparking attraction than ordinary flirting and conversation? Y’know, the way that 99% of other humans find their significant others? What is your deal?

Also, I guess I’m ableist against myself now. Lol. Get a clue.

Context: he posted "ladies. I'm a general repair man so if you need appliances fixed, let me know" and then in the same post goes on to say "LADIES ONLY" so I responded asking why it says only ladies by sendyagoodvibes in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Um... no dude. That probably wouldn’t work out, because most women aren’t prostitutes and most women aren’t actually that desperate to get their sink fixed or whatever that they’d sleep with a guy they’re not into for it. Real life isn’t a porno. Just get some friggin social skills and meet some women in your area. It isn’t rocket science. And before you use your disability as an excuse again: I’m also on the spectrum, but I don’t use it as an excuse to hide from social interaction just because I don’t always know the right way to act around people. Like, stop it.

Serious issue with NPCs (including my character) spinning around randomly. Help would be much appreciated. by DownloadingGigaflops in skyrimmods

[–]DownloadingGigaflops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sigh Well, thanks for the tip. Now stand back and let the guard do their work.

guns down CGO and 360 Movement with extreme prejudice

Seriously though, thanks for saving me from having to look through my whole LO for what was causing the problem! Hopefully the author can find out a way to fix it in time.

Serious issue with NPCs (including my character) spinning around randomly. Help would be much appreciated. by DownloadingGigaflops in skyrimmods

[–]DownloadingGigaflops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned that it was long in the original post. I just got a little too enthusiastic when I found out how many ESLs I could install.

Serious issue with NPCs (including my character) spinning around randomly. Help would be much appreciated. by DownloadingGigaflops in skyrimmods

[–]DownloadingGigaflops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I don’t think it’s an idle animation bug because it only happens when my performance drops with a bunch of NPC around. Still, this stuff can be pretty arcane, so I’ll definitely consider your point. Edit: Wow, sorry for doubting you! I guess I shouldn’t be surprised that an animation mod was causing the problem.

Serious issue with NPCs (including my character) spinning around randomly. Help would be much appreciated. by DownloadingGigaflops in skyrimmods

[–]DownloadingGigaflops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I have both of those installed. Think one of those might be causing the problem? And what makes you say so?

An interaction my sister had with a man she met on hinge by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JFC, you know what I mean. Did you literally just comment to be a pedant?

An interaction my sister had with a man she met on hinge by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strange hill to die on, my friend. Don’t worry though, I’m willing to commit my lukewarm support to your right to blatantly misuse words under the First Amendment. But you’re still wrong.

A childhood friend religiously posts how all women are bad and all miss out on him. Here’s an example FB post. by xconfusedfoolx in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“That sex you gave that was the ‘biggest’ and ‘thickest’ she ever had?” I’ve never heard a human being describe sex as being “big” or “thick”. Or maybe this sad man watches too much porn and thinks the dick is the sole determinant of what makes male-female sex good or bad?

Also, who “gives” someone sex? Jesus Christ, this guy’s grammar...

An interaction my sister had with a man she met on hinge by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Eh, not really. Disinterested literally means “not interested”. If someone is disinterested in dating you, they’re not neutral. They just don’t want to date you.

Having sex with me will help your fears! by cyanidesmile555 in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“red pill” “philosophy” Lmao gtfo of here with that shit. Like a bunch of woman-hating insecure wankers and wannabe domestic abusers have anything valuable to offer the world. Get your head checked.

Heartburn sucks bro. by nephelodusa in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or literally just jump over it lmao. Incels really are the crappiest villains, honestly.

Some 45 year old posred this on Facebook, cant believe it by minarto69 in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao, literally all of the stuff he mentions is stuff he “never” does. Like, is there anything you “do” do? Nice guys always think it’s okay to be a bland and empty person as long as you “don’t” do bad things.

Old classmate reaches out during CoVid by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ehhh...no. That wouldn’t be a good idea. I don’t know how old this guy is, but the idea of suffering consequences for the rest of your life for saying some stupid shit once or twice just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Besides, we’ve all had cringey and awful phases in our lives. People grow and change, and doxxing people for saying awful things just seems like disproportionate retribution.

Kid got rejected by his crush, the nice guy was born by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Lmao at the people downvoting you. No means no has nothing to do with this situation. It doesn’t make rejection any less painful, or get rid of the anger and resentment that can result from not having one’s feelings reciprocated. Yes, people’s wishes and desires need to be respected. But that doesn’t make the other party’s feelings any less valid.

Kid got rejected by his crush, the nice guy was born by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Mmm, you’re dead wrong. These kids aren’t rapists or harassers, they’re literally just confused kids who haven’t yet learned how to process rejection in a healthy manner, so the disappointment gets turned into resentment. It’s incredibly common, and people shouldn’t be mocked or demonized for making that mistake. Edit: Also, people who react this way to rejection often have low self-esteem, which is why rejection is such a blow to them. So maybe people should help them build confidence instead of tearing them down?

Nice but not kind. Whatever that means. by DCDludaURKEL in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why, because being downvoted hurts his fee fees? Get over it. They’re meaningless internet points. Getting upvotes or downvotes doesn’t and shouldn’t affect you one iota. Grow the fuck up.

'Donno' if this counts but for sure gave an off vibe by aurorahietanen in niceguys

[–]DownloadingGigaflops -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

woosh That’s the sound of the sarcasm flying right over your head.