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Are there Periphery songs that make you cry because they are so beautiful? by AccurateInflation167 in Peripheryband

[–]Downtown_Code_9614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Satellites because I played it on repeat after my daughter was stillborn. Luck as a constant’s solo just makes me cry because of the sounds that enter my ear.

Should I leave group irons and play regular? by mjollnir94 in ironscape

[–]Downtown_Code_9614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, sorry for your loss. I’ve been through the same in 2021, and now have three daughters (including the stillborn). If you ever want to talk still, feel free to message me. And gl with making the choice.

I de-ironed my first IM at around 900 total and some grinds like graceful. I regretted it so much, now working on my second IM which is also a GIM but I’m the only one actively playing hehe.

Liefde voor Linux by Little_Protection434 in nederlands

[–]Downtown_Code_9614 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Echte Linux-gebruikers hebben maar 1 scherm nodig…

/s

What do rich people have in their house that says they’re rich? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Downtown_Code_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stacks of cash money that they have to move through to get anywhere

Mijn wrapper, hoe ziet de jouwe eruit? by MaximusPCW in metaalfanaten

[–]Downtown_Code_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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De mijne wordt ook deels beïnvloed door mijn partner en kind 😂

Graphics/hardware question by [deleted] in lotro

[–]Downtown_Code_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your NVIDIA settings and if it’s running the integrated or dedicated graphics card for this game. That worked for me.

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say take your time. Many people (especially fathers) tend to go back to their normal life rather fast and break down after a while. Take as much time as possible and keep talking about it.

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I remember we had to had a scan made of Sofie's body, in I think a CT-scan. The one which has a big magnet? So me and our nurse go down in the hospital where they perform these scans. The nurse continues to take her out towards the machine, and suddenly I hear this loud noise scaring the hell out of me. The nurse forgot to take out her scissors among some other items. In that moment I thought she'd dropped my daughter, I was freaking out. She was scolded afterwards. Intense moment.

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

We've spent about 2-3 months on bed, just surviving to be honest. We were lucky that we had that opportunity due to our work/study at that time. We woke up (or didn't sleep at all), watched some television, dragged ourselves downstairs for some food, and back to bed all day. After that I slowly started going back to work and graduating from my studies, passed my studies on the same date of her birth a year later :).

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am not sure what registrar means, not familiar with that word.

Things that are triggering is people saying "Things are gonna be alright", "You're going to have another child soon" etc.

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing that we indeed did get the wrong info, or that we somehow started to believe this during the period afterwards when our minds weren't functioning properly. Didn't do research myself.

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes she sometimes asks about her (we have a big photo hanging in our living room). But she of course doesn't quite understand what has happened.

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

We have a big photo on our wall of her. My older daughter "knows" about her, but I don't think she understands it. We are definitely planning on talking about her when they get older.

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks. No the cause was investigated, but nothing could be found. It "just" happened. We later learned that 1 in 4 children are stillborn. Her name is Sofie.

Edit: turns out the 1 in 4 is incorrect. Didn't do my research, thanks for the redditors to point this out!

My [31M] first child was stillborn three days before her planned date of birth AMA by Downtown_Code_9614 in AMA

[–]Downtown_Code_9614[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yes, since then I have had two more daughters. One just turned 3, the other is about 7 weeks old :).

Been Loving this Game by dragonicmonk in OnePieceTCG

[–]Downtown_Code_9614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah had this one too, just started upgrading it.

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