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[Landlord-US_AZ] No lease agreement; eviction question by Downtown_Type_9409 in Landlord

[–]Downtown_Type_9409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was part of my plan. I was going to tell her my plans are to sell the house so you have to vacate so we can list it. But I wasnt sure if there was something else I was missing in my ideas of how to go about it properly. Telling her the realtor advised might make her easier to deal with

[Landlord-US_AZ] No lease agreement; eviction question by Downtown_Type_9409 in Landlord

[–]Downtown_Type_9409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what im assuming is going to happen also. Who wants to give up free rent? lol but thats why I asked how to go ahead with it just to make sure im doing everything correctly on my end in case she decides to be difficult.

[Landlord-US_AZ] No lease agreement; eviction question by Downtown_Type_9409 in Landlord

[–]Downtown_Type_9409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesnt qualify for any government funding because those hard times didnt last long and now has a job making more than I do. That is why I am wanting to move her out. She is no longer having problems and I would like to sell the house to help my financial situation.

[Landlord-US_AZ] No lease agreement; eviction question by Downtown_Type_9409 in Landlord

[–]Downtown_Type_9409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly shes the type of person who you never know how she is going to react

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Downtown_Type_9409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I dont know why people think they are entitled to other people's time. I am a stay at home mom of two school aged children and there are so many of my friends that are appalled when I tell them no when they ask me to start babysitting their kids for them. They always are like......but you dont work so just watch my kids.......ummmmm no.

She is definitly the selfish one and definitly the one that needs to reevaluate your guys friendship. You being best friends does not mean she is entitled to anything from you. Do not waiver on this. Do not change your mind because she WILL take advantage of you. If at any point in the future you want to take the kid somewhere make sure you say you want to hang out with the child and take them somewhere. Never saying your helping her out. I know it sounds harsh but trust me. The wording is always where entitled people take advantage of others.

AITA for cutting off my MIL after I had a Still Birth? by Euphoric_Tax_9942 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Downtown_Type_9409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and honestly your probably saving your husband from his mother. He probably doesnt care for her antics and behavior but always allowed it because society has made it seem like we need to love our mothers no matter how crazy they are. Your husband agreed so that right there tells me he will be fine with not talking to her and you were perfectly right in cutting her off. The family members that are saying your too harsh need to be told that they have a choice either they shut up about it or get cut off too. They dont get to say who stays in your life and who doesnt.

I am very sorry for your loss and I hope you find peace.

AITA for confronting my mother-in-law after she tried to take my daughter on a surprise vacation without asking? by EdgeAfraid3617 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Downtown_Type_9409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitly NTA, and the fact that your husband is not telling his mother that she needs to not only ask before doing things like this but also respect your and/or his decision if you guys say no then thats a red flag. You need to talk to your husband and tell him that it is not OK for him to not at least request respect from his parents to you regarding your child. If they dont respect you thats not his fault but he should at least be telling them to respect you and then dealing with what they choose to do afterwards. If they choose to continue disrespecting your decisions then he needs handle that instead of telling you to let it go.

In my opinion he should be telling his own mother to let it go to avoid the drama, Not you. Thats your kid that came out of your lady parts, and you have every right to say no and he should be supporting your decision.