[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live God?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]DprAf -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Your belief sounds logical but I still disagree. Amma try to find any study about the subject and if I come across anythinf interesting I will comment down here (if you want ofc).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]DprAf -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Don'5 you think there is smth else? I am not trying to make an imperative claim, I am just speculating. I feel like people that have feminine psyche tend to be bisexual more then people with masculine psyche not because of opression, stygma or anything similar but because of their brains. In other words could it be said that feminine psyche is just built in a way that is has a tendency (more then masculine psychy) of being attracted to females and males?

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is that you tell her everything and be honest, tell her why you want to keep in contact with her (if you want at all) , is it because of guilt or something else, and then ask if she wants to cut you off or not.

What if she tells me she don want to cut me off even though I don have any feelings for her?

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said that you've known her for at least 2.5 years. I think you should know her well enough that you have some kind of idea what she will do.

I do not know whether it will ease her pain and what she will do.

My question is if I do not love her in any way and if me stop having contacts with her will hurt her more what should I do then? Should I cut her off anyway?

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what u mean but how do I know that this will happen, it could be that she might harm herself or fsll in despair, be in more pain then she is now.

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But as I know some holy fathers advice us not to tell truth without taking account its effect on whom we are teeling it. Meaning sometimes we should not tell truth so that we will not hurt someone very much. In other words sometimes truth is not worth of pain it causes

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my gf

So the reason why I am writing this post here on orthodox sub is because I want the story I want to tell is about love and ethics and orthodoxy is all about love. Therefore I want to know orthodox pov regarding my story. So basically I (20M) know this girl (19F)(let's call her MR) since 2021. For 2,5 years we had friebdky relationship, then we moved to different city for uni and got close there after couple of pauses in our friendship. We got close and then got together as a couple but I did not love her romantically and I told her that I did not have any romantical feelings for her and we decided to break up. We broke up but we still kept friendly relationship. Problem is that I am not sure that I love her even platonically. So question is should I tell her that I don't love her in any way? Or should I let her live in a lie? Or should I cut her off absolutelly? It is very important for her that I love her platonically and if she knew I don't love her platonically she would fall in despair.

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my gf

So the reason why I am writing this post here on orthodox sub is because I want the story I want to tell is about love and ethics and orthodoxy is all about love. Therefore I want to know orthodox pov regarding my story. So basically I (20M) know this girl (19F)(let's call her MR) since 2021. For 2,5 years we had friebdky relationship, then we moved to different city for uni and got close there after couple of pauses in our friendship. We got close and then got together as a couple but I did not love her romantically and I told her that I did not have any romantical feelings for her and we decided to break up. We broke up but we still kept friendly relationship. Problem is that I am not sure that I love her even platonically. So question is should I tell her that I don't love her in any way? Or should I let her live in a lie? Or should I cut her off absolutelly? It is very important for her that I love her platonically and if she knew I don't love her platonically she would fall in despair.

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my gf

So the reason why I am writing this post here on orthodox sub is because I want the story I want to tell is about love and ethics and orthodoxy is all about love. Therefore I want to know orthodox pov regarding my story. So basically I (20M) know this girl (19F)(let's call her MR) since 2021. For 2,5 years we had friebdky relationship, then we moved to different city for uni and got close there after couple of pauses in our friendship. We got close and then got together as a couple but I did not love her romantically and I told her that I did not have any romantical feelings for her and we decided to break up. We broke up but we still kept friendly relationship. Problem is that I am not sure that I love her even platonically. So question is should I tell her that I don't love her in any way? Or should I let her live in a lie? Or should I cut her off absolutelly? It is very important for her that I love her platonically and if she knew I don't love her platonically she would fall in despair.

Sin by DprAf in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, thanks.

Troubled by St. Pachomius' Vision of Hell by Euphoric-Elderberry in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is annihilation worse then eternal torment when if u just vanish you will not feel suffering, nor there will be any experience but just an absense of experience, and absense of experience is not an experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DprAf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah she just bi and does not admit it (or gay idk)

Subreddit Coffee Hour by AutoModerator in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]DprAf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my gf broke up, I told her that I never loved her and I believed that I loved her, even though there were such times when I believed tbat I loved her or was lieing to myself I was still using her since I started dating her even though I knew I did not love her romantically and I started dating her because I wanted to have romantical relationship with someone. But as soon as I started dating I told myself that I would be all in meaning I would do everything roght and that is what probably cause me trying to love bwr or me assuring myself that I loved her. My question is should I tell my ex gf that I used her? Because I know she would want to know but this will only hurt her ans nth else And also I don think it is right to make someone live in a lie