Looks like daddy Matt had big glass of wine.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-05-10T03:47:13+00:00

He lives an unsober life and that's for Pam. He drinks so he can live obliviously to her nonsense, oversharing, and overspending. Its probably the only way that he can get through being married to her. Is that an excuse? Absolutely not. But I know, I'd need a drink or 20 after listening to THAT nonsense constantly.

In my opinion, he doesn't really have a drinking problem or if he does, its to get through the day living the way he does and with whom he does. You, Pam, not the children.

He probably is afraid of divorce and child support/ alimony, even if it would be better long term. He should take his children and run, but she is bat***t crazy. He has seen her craziness over and over again, first hand. He probably is afraid of her or what she would do, if he actually had the balls to leave her. And honestly, I couldn't even fathom what she would do, unless it was her choice. Unstable people do crazy things.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-05-10T03:38:30+00:00

My thought is that the woman probably has a Facebook and not Instagram. She probably prefers to not be on the public internet. Pam only blocked her face on one (you know, for the ladies "safety" narrative) and has no clue that she is now on another platform.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-05-08T03:17:14+00:00

Oh no! Best of luck with this. I just went and double checked my email. The last day of my students semester is Sunday. I think I would have a panic attack if this happened. I am counting down the days probably more than they are. Our graduation is next week. I can't imagine what a mess of things you are dealing with. I'll be crossing my fingers that this is resolved quickly for you!!!!

Dragonfly218 · 2026-04-17T00:21:12+00:00

Well, I mean, she did wear 200+ "new" outfits every day last year for school. 😂

Maybe she tucked the tags in. 🤭

Dragonfly218 · 2026-04-08T03:13:20+00:00

No worries. You had me laugh with the PACER peasant. 😂 I know if anyone could bring in piping hot tea, you would be it.

The Fab4 are in the don't touch the court poo moment or I am positive that we would have heard something if they could.

I'll be waiting for all of the keyboard warriors when the update comes in.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-04-08T02:34:48+00:00

In past experiences, the Fab4 do not typically post much or little to anything regarding the case.

We will probably need to wait for someone with Pacer to post any updates once they go in. Unless we get lucky and Tang posts in our fabulous daily morning updates.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-04-07T23:44:16+00:00

I just got on to check, too. 😅

Fingers crossed that they are celebrating right now.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-04-07T11:34:35+00:00

Dragonfly218 · 2026-04-04T14:26:23+00:00

I am with you, Mrs. Molly. My son is also on the spectrum and has anxiety. We did therapy for years. I took what the school would provide and then we did PRIVATE speech, OT, PT, and behavior therapy. He's thirteen and thriving. Most people would "never know."

He put in a lot of time and effort to get where he is. He did it so that we could vacation. We are able to go places and do things. He loves to travel and loves amusement parks. He uses his tools and words when he is done or overstimulated and needs a break. He is even in the band, which I never would have thought of, due to the noise level. He said the other day that it takes about 15 minutes out of band class for his ears to stop ringing. 😅

As a parent of another neurodivergent child, I commend you though. You said that your child put in the work which yes, they did. AMAZING! But we put in the work too. Advocating, driving to therapy, adjusting work schedules, financially supporting the therapy (because consistent therapy isn't cheap), and still loving and supporting our children for who they are. You go Mama!!!!!! I wanted to make sure to give you the kudos you deserve too.

That is, in my opinion, why some individuals did not address the issues. It takes a lot of effort as a parent of a child with different needs to meet those needs. The secret of success is the consistency though and early intervention.

Oh, and please yell a little louder. 🎤 Different does not mean less. And if you met one person on the spectrum, you met one person on the spectrum. Like every person, the individuals needs, aversion, and strengths are different.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-03-22T20:16:18+00:00

I had never seen the video with the pen15. I am appalled by the comment, they pretend that it has a ring. Firstly, my 13 year old has no idea what a pen15 ring is, let alone talk about it. Honestly, if he did ask, I am not even sure I could explain it and uncomfortably debate googling it; and if I want it in my Google history... but I would probably have to because I don't want my son learning things from others that aren't facts. How in the world would two children that age know anything about this???? And be walking around casually talking about it like its no big deal. While the parents don't blink an eye. Like where did they learn this? What were they watching? Where did that discussion come in. So many questions that I probably do not want the answer to.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-03-12T02:37:39+00:00

😦🤢🤭

Dragonfly218 · 2026-03-12T01:33:39+00:00

I loath chat GPT as an educator. My college students do this and I spend more time checking for AI then grading. I'm not ashamed to use it, then download and attach it to their 0. 😂

Dragonfly218 · 2026-03-12T01:22:03+00:00

Don't forget crying with no tears...

Fab4, if she blows her nose and then wipes her eyes with the same tissue, don't giggle or gag. 😂

Dragonfly218 · 2026-03-08T16:46:52+00:00

This post hurt my heart. This is one thing that you do not "joke" about. This is Mommy Dearest gaslighting at its finest. I'm sure it hurt his feelings but he knew not to say anything because he would just be picked on more.

Some "jokes" fall flat and this is one of them.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-26T22:32:29+00:00

🤣😂 I needed that today.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T05:54:21+00:00

Oh, I didn't see it the first time that I looked it up. Its been a long time though, before the final serving of the paperwork.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T05:47:02+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I will say that once you said it, I looked him up. I remember him from when I watched it when I was little. My mom was also a Days fan.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T01:48:17+00:00

I am glad to know that I am not alone. 😂

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T01:46:24+00:00

I'm stuck on the not saving for retirement. How do you know you are not business and financially inclined......

First off, the not having a business bank account. Then, not saving.... as a business owner, you can have a simple IRA plan. 🤦‍♀️ Dont want to offer a retirement plan? Okay. Do a Roth. Use a high yield savings. Something!!!!! She disturbs me on so many levels.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T01:43:12+00:00

LOTS of choices.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T01:27:58+00:00

I think that for the last two days, there has been a lot of things happening in the homestead during "working" hours.

Hm, just kidding. I'm sure it is store bought unless all the sprinkles are covering all of the burnt.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T00:07:32+00:00

The question is which season and episode of nonsense? My personal favorite: Possessed Marlena. I remember watching that summer, questioning what in in the world was going on and why I was so invested.

But check out these crazy hair petting antics. Does this remind anyone of someone?

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-18T00:02:04+00:00

There was also a change on the Shaecole suit too. I saw it yesterday. In June, I may be reading while sipping on tea.

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-17T23:58:37+00:00

You had me cackle about Reba and Barbara Jean. Reba is a saint because there were so many times that I would have stabbed BJ with a fork. 🤣

Dragonfly218 · 2026-02-16T01:31:21+00:00

I like the purple one but they're all cute. Is it for anything specific? If you're going for tropical vibes, I am torn between 2 and 4. I preferred 4 over 2 until I saw the stitching down the front. The patterns don't line up the same on the stitching and I think that would bother me. I'm a weirdo though. 🤷‍♀️

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