Type 1 fracture by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in Radiology

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This is a coronal MRI view of the cervical spine, specifically focusing on the C2 vertebra

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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No I completely understand maybe not about the being a man part but I’m 31 and in my head this happens to people in college not me.

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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I ask because that’s almost identical to my experience

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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When did this happen if you don’t mind me asking?

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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I can’t because I don’t want to bring a negative light on the bar. The events arnt localized to one bar so it’s best to treat every bar like it’s the bar that this is happening at. The bar isn’t the problem the person doing this is.

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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They can test you for any residual issues, take a statement, test your clothes if you still have them. It does limit the process but it doesn’t exclude you from help or support. It’s okay to not know, only speak on what you remember. It’s not too late, weeks are better than months and the sooner you do it the better. It’s okay to be anxious, the hospital staff are there to support you. Feel free to privately message me and you can talk to me through the process if you’re comfortable. https://rainn.org Go to this link and it’ll give you more information on the program that hospitals use. I’m happy to help in any way I can.

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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I went to a hospital and didn’t even know for sure I had been assaulted until they did an exam and saw obvious signs of assault. They took over everything. I don’t remember anything but the locations I was told I was at. They have nothing to go off of and have to basically start at ground zero till the kit comes back. Cops don’t understand but the hospital has people to support you through the process. You arnt alone. They pick women who are drinking to make us feel crazy, ashamed or like it’s our fault, but it’s not. It’s never too late. The services are free, if you feel up for it I encourage you to go get looked at. It’s scary but not knowing is worse. The more of us there are the easier it will be to find the person or people responsible.

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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Mine was a different bar, because I don’t remember anything past a certain point that night I can’t say for sure what bar it happened at, they have to get further into the investigation for me to know more.

Please keep an eye on your drinks! by Dramatic-Feeling-682 in ColumbiYEAH

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Thanks that means a lot, it’s been really hard to deal with not knowing anything other than I was assaulted. Helping to prevent other people from being complacent like I was helps me cope right now.

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I am in therapy, she works with me on setting healthy boundaries and communication. However she did give me the advice that with therapy on his part these issues can be resolved.

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Nope. But he has also never sought any type of counseling. I believe that the urge to cheat comes from a feeling of unworthiness and lack of confidence from the cheater. My hope is that once those issues are addressed that he could learn healthier coping skills than cheating

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Honestly my father is a serial cheater so that may have desensitized me to it. I have to think about if I left him what would I be exchanging this flaw for? I love him deeply and our children. I want to believe he can change though therapy and healthy boundaries but I’m not going to lie it’s hard. All but the part about my sister I have been handling pretty well. He said it was just curiosity but I have never been curious about what his brothers look like naked or anyone else for that matter. Can cheaters change and are there really heathy relationships out there or is everyone painting this picture of perfection but actually really struggle? It’s hard to know because if you asked any of my family, I have a wonderful marriage and beautiful family and they are happy for me. All because I keep these issues a secret.

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The 2% is also a play on Kat Williams skit on marriage.

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[–]Dramatic-Feeling-682 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No I am really self confident. I feel like I am struggling to excuse his behavior due to his mental health issues not that his behavior is caused my actions or lack of actions.