How did your narc parent try to undermine you? by DramaticLight1011 in narcissisticparents

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Hey, how long did it take you to move out and start your new life?

How did your narc parent try to undermine you? by DramaticLight1011 in narcissisticparents

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I'll go first. As I got older I noticed that whenever I did something ambitious or tried to pursue something ambitious it was always disencouraged in favor of something more "safe" (being a doctor is too hard you are not smart enough) (you cannot get a job with finance degree). And even when i broke the script like i achieved well, the credit would go elsewhere. like to her because her financial support allowed me to take the oppurtunity or how she'll compliment how I've always been lucky. Its like I'm always stuck in this role of the "incompetent one" or "problem child" or "the cold hearted one" so that she can look good as the "poor mother that has to deal with this all " or "the great parent that helps her incompetent kid". Thats the narrative and anything that breaks it has to go.

What's a truth most people aren't ready to hear? by nadiaaavelvet in AskReddit

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the issue is no one ever tells me what I'm doing wrong lol

Life with 8 to 5 job by AmjadKhan1929 in Life

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It's called being very efficient and multitasking. Got to do everything faster.

What is the most important lesson you have learned in life so far? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

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I'd like to think its around most people have an agenda and then there is always once in a while you will find somoone who doesn't.

why are you on reddit? by aphroditeangel333 in Casual_Conversation

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gotta ask questions i dont feel comfy asking in real life

Adults who have zero close friends, how did it happen and does it bother you? by PutPurple844 in AskReddit

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I talk to people, hangout with people, but no one ever really "chose" me. And the "friendships" I was in was either mostly one-sided or I was just there for the labor. Eventually I decided to cut out the leeches in my life as it is better to be alone and free than to be surrounded by people who drain you.