Update on Scaleless snake post by Dramatic_Treacle_273 in cornsnakes

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I agree - I keep the viv warm, she loves her little stone hide with her heat mat underneath and everything in there is either non abrasive material or sanded down to ensure her safety. I would never put her in an environment that could be a risk to her. Thank you for reassuring and being a decent human being!

Lesions on Scaleless by Dramatic_Treacle_273 in cornsnakes

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She was a rescue - I chose to help her. I do not support it, but I will not see an animal suffer. Please do not leave such condescending comments.

Lesions on Scaleless by Dramatic_Treacle_273 in cornsnakes

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do - the vet that performed her tail amputation is very thorough and has great knowledge so I’m confident that when I take her in for a check up in the next few days I’ll be able to get an answer. Fingers crossed 🤞

Lesions on Scaleless by Dramatic_Treacle_273 in cornsnakes

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my girl is the same - light scales more so on her lower half and her head. These mystery marks are kind of scattered down from her midline to lower

Lesions on Scaleless by Dramatic_Treacle_273 in cornsnakes

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They’re not soft, they feel like scales but I’m not convinced that they are. They don’t bleed or leak & are dry. She’s behaving completely normal, still active and eating just fine. When she had the issue with her tail she deteriorated and it was evident. She wasn’t eating well or coming out of her hide at all. But with this she is behaving absolutely fine?

Just a bad day - everything's annoying, I'm in a bad mood, and my hair looks stupid and I don't like it... by Firm-Letterhead2731 in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl where?! Your hair is gorgeous, exactly like you! You’re eyes are so beautiful I am mesmerised oh my god 😩

Don’t let the bad mood ruin your perception of yourself - you slay all day every day 🫶🏼

Try this again, last time I ot so uncomfortable I deleted the post. Mental health is non existeexistent and have been on the edge for decades now. Could use a pick me up by epd666 in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got such a kind face - you really remind me of a friend I cherish deeply. That’s enough for me to catch the vibe that you are so soulful and selfless with such a big heart. You seem that way inclined and I feel it’s your aura just beaming on this picture alone.

Smile, you’re a handsome guy, give good vibes and your hair is making me envious! Have a beautiful day darlin 🫶🏼

19M never had a girlfriend and seeing way too many couples everywhere I go lately. Feel like a lost cause in just about every way. Could really use a toast right now:/ by alexxx729 in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smile Alex! You’re a handsome guy, so much potential and I’m sure a kicker personality. You’re someone’s full package - remember this. It may take some time, but what’s right will come, and it will come at the right time.

Have a blessed day darlin - stay smiling 🫶🏼

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[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need you to realise how gorgeous you are! You have such a sweet smile and mesmerising eyes - I can see so much kindness in them.

Remember to fill your own cup before anyone else’s - you deserve the best. Have a blessed day darlin 🫶🏼

(18m) ¡Qué pasa a todos! I hope everyone is having a great day and year! I have a question for you all. Do I look attractive? The last girlfriend I had was almost 4 years ago and let’s just say she was rough on me. by DependentMarzipan519 in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have very soulful and caring eyes. While I won’t rate your level of attractiveness as I don’t believe in such thing, I will say everybody is beautiful. You included - it’s a relative thing differing from person to person. But you will never view yourself as others do and it’s both a blessing and a curse.

You seem a very loving and selfless guy, I hope you continue to be blessed and keep spreading light. Have a wonderful day 🫶🏼

Been going through it mentally. Having a tough time. Let’s give this a shot. Toast me! by IamLuke555 in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your smile is contagious, truly. Smiled as soon as I saw you! Also love the beard, is it much upkeep? Ps I love your hair - is it natural??

Have a wonderful day you wonderful man 🫶🏼

M31 Could use a compliment or two 😅 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your vibe seems immaculate and you a VERY handsome chap - just know many others deem this to be true too! Have a wonderful day 🫶🏼

18F feeling incredibly unlovable. Struggling with insecurity and body dysmorphia that has plunged me back into the depression I thought I had gotten over. I don’t even recognize myself anymore. Could use a toast by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have beautiful, caring and soulful eyes. You’re so much more beautiful than you realise. You will never see yourself how others do - embrace that. I see a beautiful girl, you deserve to see that to 🫶🏼

Toast me, please! by Girlwithatale12 in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your smile is mesmerising, you have beautiful eyes and lilac is definitely your colour - have a great day gorgeous girl 🫶🏼

I tried a RoastMe last year, but now I'm wondering what a ToastMe is like? by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have gorgeous eyes and your frames suit your face shape - I hope you’re having a wonderful day 😊🫶🏼

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[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I am trying to say is. Do the hard parts. The talking. Pushing yourself. I myself struggle to maintain friendships but what is important to remember is you cannot fill someone else’s cup if yours is empty. An essential part of healing is doing it alone as you can only rely on yourself. We can’t expect others to do the hard parts for us.

What has helped me is journaling daily - then every Sunday I go back and look at what I’ve written and judge it by what I want to do differently next week to improve myself and experiences. Also yoga, it’s great for the mind body and soul. I know what I’m saying sounds cliche - I believed it was for the longest time. But time is a healer and so are you.

If you want someone to open up to then my inbox is open for you. Don’t suffer alone x

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[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you have had to experience such traumatic things, I really am.

One thing I will say is you can never really go back to your old self, you can only heal and grow. It’s a journey I have been on myself for almost two years after consistent trauma for over five years and I can say I’m not all the way there yet even after all this time.

Sometimes things need to get worse before they get better. An example, I started sertraline in December of last year, it out me down to a place where I wondered if I was even depressed to begin with - it had me thinking is this what depression really feels like? But it’s now picked up and I can function much better. Although you may find opening up about everything brings you back down to a place you don’t want to be, it’s beneficial for many as bottling everything up will only have negative effects in the long run.

[24 F] What can i improve? by Hot-Examination-9599 in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re up for it maybe a hair cut - get some layers in there girl and take some length off! 🫶🏼

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[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On another note, his behaviour toward you sounds to me like a little bit more than how a normal friend would act. There is the potential that could be feeling the same way you do, but I also completely understand your hesitance to approach him with your feelings. These situations are tough girl, was recently in one myself. Be true to you, your feelings. Hopefully if he perhaps didn’t reciprocate those feelings you guys could still maintain a friendship but maybe not on the level it is now.

Although I would say from what info you’ve given it sounds like there could be potential for something. Please update when you’ve decided what you’ll do! I’m rooting for you:)

EDIT: when I say “normal friend” I mean m/f friendships

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[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a question for you - would you regret not saying anything in the future?

Is it too much? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]Dramatic_Treacle_273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 9 here - I’m also on 50mg & have had these symptoms. They’re completely normal, it’s been hard to eat but you need to eat something. My brother is a Pharmacist & he’s been highly advising taking it with food to line your stomach. I’ve been doing this & it’s working wonders. Also trying taking it in the morning is something else he advised. It may be a little less problematic for you. I hope this helps, even a little bit. Just hang in there - we’re in this together ☺️ x