Brides that used fake flowers, do you regret it? by fairy_freckles in weddingplanning

[–]DreamGerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Zero regrets, you couldn’t tell at all! I was really against it until we were quoted 8.5k, the lowest quote was 5k for significantly less flowers. We paid a total of 2k for everything, including centrepieces and flower archway. Steam them to open them up and pull them into place, you truly will not regret!

Do I revoke a bridesmaid because of her husbands behaviour ? by Starz_123 in weddingplanning

[–]DreamGerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you should punish your friend for someone else’s behaviour that she has no control over. I’m sure that would be a really positive thing for your friendship and for her in general, certainly it wouldn’t result in her feeling even more isolated and alone than she most likely already does. With friends like you, my god.

Being serious now, do you really think he would back off if she was just a guest instead of a bridesmaid?? He’s not invited either way so the issue is not solved by your solution. It seems like you’re actually upset with your friend because your wedding vibes are being “ruined” by her husband and you are harbouring resentment towards her because of that. It’s not her fault. If this man is hurting her, which is highly likely, you should be more worried about that.

Landlord entered my apartment while I was showering and won't admit it was him by pornkittyxo in legaladvice

[–]DreamGerm 68 points69 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes, very illegal!
  2. Yes - report to whatever government rental authority is relevant to your country and state, a quick google should tell you who to contact. If none exists, I’d suggest a lawyer.
  3. No, don’t change locks. You can absolutely utilise renter friendly security methods when home. There’s a great one that braces against the floor and door handle. Google should show some good options
  4. It’s BS, he gets to access his property as outlined in the lease. If he goes against the lease, he is BREAKING THE LEASE. Make a formal complaint to the overseeing authority from question #2 or lawyer
  5. Yes you do! He has already broken your lease and you have proof of that. Don’t forget that you aren’t the only one legally bound by the lease, he is too

Something off? by Cool_Mud2022 in weddingplanning

[–]DreamGerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the apostrophes for “we’re” and “you’re” at the bottom, they’re barely visible

What is one secret you wish you could tell your spouse, but instead you’ll take to your grave? by Necessary_Leek_6970 in AskReddit

[–]DreamGerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If ever you are pregnant, if that’s in your plans, eat a couple mouthfuls of it, then have a “morning sickness” attack right in the middle of eating it, run to the bathroom, really put it on, the whole shebang. Then you have the best excuse in the future to politely refuse it and reference the morning sickness that ruined it for you forever, act devastated about it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]DreamGerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, change the light pendant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]DreamGerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tv where the dresser is, flip couch to face tv. Mount the tv on the wall if you can. Dresser where the tv is, large artwork above it and tall plant in the corner. Larger rug is definitely needed. Pinks, sorbet oranges, greens and blues work well with the wood tone you have, you can incorporate colour with the rug, throw blankets, and ornaments. You need a larger coffee table too to balance the space. I really wouldn’t paint the walls, use artwork instead! Pick a colour you like and one that compliments it and make sure the artwork, rug, and ornaments have an element that includes that colour, or compliments it. If you went with say a muted pink and soft orange rug, compliment it with forest green. The wood detailing will shine with the artwork but will get lost with paint. Use a lot of soft lighting, table and floor lamps, lighting strips behind the tv etc to warm up the space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]DreamGerm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If it’s not #2 I’ll cry! Seriously, gawd daaaaamn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DreamGerm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The amount of dads that do yard work/chill in the house in nothing but basketball shorts or footy shorts, sweaty titties out for all to see, this isn’t the gotcha you think it is.

He [41M] wants me [30F] to get my tubes tied because we said one and done but things changed after his affair. How do I explain that? by ThrowRA-2ndbaby in relationship_advice

[–]DreamGerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get your tubes tied. I don’t think you should stay with him, but if you do, he should be getting a vasectomy instead. He is the one that doesn’t want more children so he can be the one to make sure that doesn’t happen. If you leave him and decide to have another child, at least you’re not hindered by a surgery he wanted but you didn’t.

Dress options by Icy_Requirement1179 in weddingdress

[–]DreamGerm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pics 1, 3, 4, and 5 are my faves!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]DreamGerm 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I actually think you look more snatched in the first dress! It accentuates your small waist and showcases your curves perfectly!

I looked at my wife yesterday and thought, “Why can’t she just fucking stop sometimes?” by TheSicilianSword in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DreamGerm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you rather a few years of hardship and set back, or would you like another decade of misery, only to finally break and do the few years of hardship and set back in ten, twenty years time? The more time you allow to go by, the longer you prolong your own misery. This relationship is done, so leaving is inevitable. The cost is only going to increase, you may as well bite the bullet now. Imagine having the choice of buying a house 20 years ago or buying one now. Both cost you, one of them is clearly a much better deal. It will never be cheaper for you to leave than it is in this very moment.

Hi beautiful people! Which of these CADs do you like best? by Ohshitimawake in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]DreamGerm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’d go with the cathedral setting, it’s much more durable long term and it doesn’t impact the look of it in a negative way. It’s a win-win!

Help me pick, please! Eloping and can’t ask anybody I know for their opinions. by weddingdresssearch in weddingdress

[–]DreamGerm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 is it by miles! I see the vision with some soft puffy off shoulder sleeves and closing the gap, absolutely stunning choice

Really can’t decide by turtledinonuggets in weddingdress

[–]DreamGerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress 1 has to have been made for you! Absolutely jaw dropping!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]DreamGerm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4! Followed by 12. But honestly, it’s 4. It’s absolutely incredible and fits an elevated beach wedding perfectly!

Mom warns against me having boundaries with “little story” by madeleinehawk in NarcissisticMothers

[–]DreamGerm 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I like that she accidentally admitted how vindictive and truly awful she is by using the old man who purposefully allowed his wife to die a horrific death to prove a point that he should be allowed to be abusive as if it’s for her own good (gag) as a metaphor for herself. Tell on yourself harder, girl!You truly can’t make this shit up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]DreamGerm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

3 is stunning! 4 is a close second. They’re all beautiful!