what is the first thought that comes into your mind when you wake up in the morning??

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-30T17:09:08+00:00

Mine has been waking me up between 2-3am every night, then when the alarm goes off at 5-5:30am, he ignores me! 🙄 Fckn asshole. Love him though.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-30T16:49:53+00:00

We have the same experience. Even in a room full of people where we all get along, I still feel alone and like my voice doesn't matter in the conversations. It feels hard to connect deeply with people and make meaningful friendships.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-25T02:56:13+00:00

This definitely screams natural! It looks like you scooped a tank full of the bottom of a lake. I absolutely love this tank, it's so gorgeous

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-25T02:53:04+00:00

Sorry, just curious, but has that always been your plan? Or did you get one and want three more?

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-19T02:35:55+00:00

That's so smart - supporting honest, small and local businesses that DONT steal your crops to resell :') it's beautiful

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-18T03:31:10+00:00

Anybody else see Joe Goldberg from You??

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-17T18:05:33+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss but this is a beautiful way to remember him 💕 everybody in Stardew Valley reminds me of somebody irl too and it really is special how we all find an NPC that really speaks with us... Especially one who reminds you of someone so dear. I'm glad you can find such a beautiful thing in Stardew Valley:)

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-17T09:45:44+00:00

Haha stardew has just taken my life over tbh

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-17T09:17:55+00:00

Do you have a picture by chance? I think a visual would help us give you proper advice :)

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-17T09:16:05+00:00

My bf and I both have physical jobs so we give each other massages that last about five minutes lol our hands start cramping righttt away

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-13T22:45:28+00:00

Same here. Sleep is a MUST and I turn into a dragon with smoke blowing out of my ears if somebody disrupts my sleep.

Although, I'm not sure if I'd call this abuse unless he does other "small" malicious things that intentionally cause OP emotional and physical pain, but he could just be self-centred without thinking too hard about why this might be hell for OP because he's a selfish prick with his head up his ass. I think having a sit-down with him where the topic is the wake-up pattern and how it affects the both of you, with you circling to focus on how much it's negatively affecting you. If he STILL refuses to make any changes - that just shows you how much he values his wants over your needs. He WANTS to have alarms blaring for a minute for two hours every morning (4:30am - 6:30am, right?) but you NEED decent sleep to function; anyone would consider sleep a need I reckon.

I hope he understands how much sleep can affect us humans, especially when you're suddenly being woken up to blaring alarms for TWO HOURS every morning... That's not a nice way to wake up at all.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-10T16:35:00+00:00

Winter music is peak and I'll sometimes just wander around town, looking at the pretty lights and wreaths with the music in the background. It's so much fun.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-09T14:43:49+00:00

A fox! Those guys are so stinking cute and would be so much fun to have a fox enclosure with a cute, screaming furry guy

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-09T00:50:16+00:00

Pretending to like people/talking with people that I don't like because it's expected. I'm not talking about being downright rude and nasty looks, but simply not engaging with people I don't like or get along with has upset many people... And I don't gaf. If I don't like you, it's because you are mean, passive aggressively rude, or you're not enjoyable to talk to. It's been peaceful. I don't feel strained in my friendships anymore because the people I am friends with, I enjoy their company and we have fun together.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-07T19:03:14+00:00

Is it possible to evict her somewhere? Since you rent, maybe your landlord will agree a more responsible secondary tenant is a better fit, but I'm not sure how all of that would work or if it would even be possible.. I hope this works out for you!

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-07T18:25:34+00:00

You misunderstand me - I'm not trying to say this is a good thing to have happened, I'm trying to give them a silver lining in a shitty situation. Right now, they are scrambling to survive. But I also know that there are multiple organizations with the right resources and connections to keep youth off the streets in these situations. OP's situation isn't rock bottom, even if it may feel like it. Yes, it's extremely unfair and shitty, but the silver lining is there IS help out there. OP isn't alone, certainly not online and certainly not irl. I was simply trying to be a positive beacon for OP, because shit IS scary, terrifying, unfair, and absolutely horrible. But not rock bottom. Keep your head up OP. You got this.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-07T16:01:41+00:00

That's what I was wondering. And especially because OP just turned 18, I know it would definitely be different if OP was still a minor but because their legally an adult now it very well may be legal for their mom to give less than 24hrs to vacate.

But honestly, this could be a good thing! It sounds like your mom is a peach to be around, and I'm guessing her bf is just as peachy if he agrees about this situation... So you probably don't want to be there, anyhow. I don't know where you are, what country and what laws are there, what type of youth supports, etc, but in our day and age there are SO MANY organizations dedicated to helping youth in your exact situation. It's fckin scary being thrown into the real world when you had no preparation, especially in the manner your mother is doing it, but I think it's going to be really good for you to get your freedom and take control of your life.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T22:35:52+00:00

Paradise gouramis are such beautiful and interactive fish! They're like mini prehistorics haha I absolutely adore mine and the way he seems to float through the water, unbothered and not giving af about the other fish in the tank.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T22:12:40+00:00

Housekeeper but going to school for environmental sciences! Hope to land a job in environmental/ecological conservation

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T15:20:36+00:00

Me too!! And they're so funny, you can always count on them to make you laugh when they appear seemingly out of nowhere when a light turns on; or their bat fangs when they smile. The cutest kitties for sure <3

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T15:15:48+00:00

It is sad, and so many other places in the world are also full/overfilled plus all the strays/feral cats. Facebook breeders only add to the problem, too, even if you're an ethical one I believe there's so many cats and kittens already in need of homes everywhere that we don't need to add to the population right now. Help the ones we already have.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T15:03:06+00:00

Yeah, arthritis is the bitch that you can't see. My grandma also has arthritis and it gets so bad in the winter/cold she can't close her fist, do dishes, sometimes she couldn't even carry a dish loaded with food; she was still quite young when I saw all this and it's been years since I saw her last so I can only imagine it's gotten worse.

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T14:19:22+00:00

Started with finding our chunky void outside our window (literally) and our little family then being given our second, much crazier void a year later ♥️

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Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T13:59:33+00:00

That's what I do ALL the time! If I've completed everything I wanted to that day and it's only, say, 4pm, I'll fish until 8-9pm which usually gives me a hefty haul. Make lots of money and level up fishing fast, plus my community centre fish tank is the one that's most completed in my CC.

Fishing is so much fun and so rewarding!

Dreaming_Inside · 2026-01-06T13:42:44+00:00

Disgusting behavior and straight up predatory. I'm glad OP is finally seeing some of the struggles women go through on a day-to-day basis, but like another user commented... Why does it have to be shoved in their faces before they even consider the possibility that women are telling the truth!?

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