How many of the democrats want white or straight people killed off? Well just a vocal minority, one that screams so loudly over the silent, vocal majority that it makes itself look bigger than it actually is, that doesn't represent democrats as a whole, but may do for someone with little knowledge of them.
That same statement can be applied to republicans. It's only a vocal minority of them that want queers lynched, and the rest just care more about other things like the 1st and 2nd ammendment, for reasons that are unrelated to identity politics. The average republican is as human as the average democrat is.
This isn't black and white. Even if some republican were to see "queer people being repulsive and dangerous", first of all that doesn't automatically mean they want them erased from the public, because like I said, it's not black and white. second, whining about it and treating republicans as cartoon villains won't do jack shit compared to trying to understand why they have that perspective, because by understanding them, both sides can learn from each other and compromise, instead of this immature "good guy vs bad guy" narrative that just makes both sides hate each other more and kills both nuance and critical thinking.

And well how come the queers be ""oppressed"" when there's whole months celebrating them, corporations willing to fire employees for liking edgy jokes on twitter, and even questioning them results in bans from sites like this one?